Have you got any advice for shy guys?

see, im a little low on confidence on asking girls out, i don't know why, any advice?Have you got any advice for shy guys?
Overcoming your shyness can be a HUGE sticking point for a lot of guys.





This article is probably the best stuff I've found on the subject... I read it recently and got a lot out of it:





http://hubpages.com/hub/5-Empowering-Dating-Tips-For-Shy-GuysHave you got any advice for shy guys?
I'm pretty shy, and used to be awful at talking to girls I liked, but fine talking to them as friends. My tactic is to just forget I like them and just talk to them as a friend. Ended up having a nearly 15min conversation with this girl I really like a few weeks ago, and other than a couple of slips, got on really well. Oddly, I tend to have a problem with eye contact, and will often look past people when talking to them, or even away from them, yet have no trouble with her. She's not the most outgoing person herself either, and other than her close friends doesn't talk to that many people (although I think a lot of boys like her as she's really pretty, so a lot seem to try and talk to her.
you gotta find out why it is your being shy, whats making you want to hide yourself? don't say you don't know just have a thinking session and just really THINK... is it:


fear of humiliation? were you bullied and worry about the bigger guys? do you fear rejection? do you have physical insecurities? worry about people watching you? worry about being taken advantage of?


get back to me, i'll try to help (=
One of the most noticable things about a person is there confidence..


If you're having trouble asking a girl out, how about getting a friend to quiz her on what they think of you before moving in? Some girls like the quieter type, so just try your luck!


Good luck :)
Confidence is something you can act, if you know a girl likes you..then why be shy, just try talking to her. Just think of her as being friend at first, but try to be yourself just worry less.
Girls love confidence so it doesn't matter if you aren't, just act it. Even if your feeling like an idiot because its so unlike you, the chances are girls will be much more attracted to you :)
Just use ur funny side to hide how shy you are. Take an interest in her hobbies and stuff. Ask her if she is goin to a concert (randomly) and if she says no then say would you like to come with?