Sunday, December 27, 2009

GUYS! Advice!?

Ok, so lately i feel as though my b/f doesnt care what i want when it comes to sex.





Like for instance, he came home from work the other night and before he got in the shower i told him not to take care of business in the shower because i had some plans for him and he still did it! sometimes i feel like he wants to have sex when HE wants and doesnt care about me.





Guys, can i get some input and advice?GUYS! Advice!?
maybe he waked off because he wanted to last longer when the two of you got frisky.GUYS! Advice!?
Sounds like something else is missing in your relationship......explore that first then worry about the sex later....
Not knowing much more about the situation I can only say you two SERIOUSLY need to communicate better.
if worse comes to worse you are gonna have to make it clear to him that you arent satisfied with your sex life. he will probably be pissed off bout it though. thats just how guys are. word it in a way that makes it sound as though he is the won losing out or the one that will benefit from some changes. tell him you miss how often you two had sex and you want him more often etc.
Not sure what to tell you on this one. I think it is a mutual thing, when the guy is in the mood the woman should put out, when the woman is in the mood, the guy should perform. And there are times when the other person just has no interest in sex, even the guys.





Of course it could be stress from work causing this. Not sure what he does for a living but if he is having problems at work it can transfer to the bedroom. You could be having problems in the relationship and it is wearing on him. There are a few things that can cause a guy not to want sex.





You should talk to him and get a frank discussion. That could clear up some of the problem.
yeah i'll tell u what to do


do the same and take care of ur needs and have enuf by ur self so when ever he wants to do it u can easly say no and say ';NO! i did it a lil while ago'; i dun feel like doing it and keep doing that for at least a week or 2 and he will be sorry for it be sure abt that and also check with girls if ur doing good and ur giving him a good job!
no I cant....if I had a healthy relationship goin on though I wouldnt be jacking off in the shower.

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