Thursday, December 31, 2009

I need a guys advice pleaseee helppp?

well im 13 and my ex was 17 and now he keeps on calling me again and stuff what does he want and why does he call me you think?I need a guys advice pleaseee helppp?
Hon, you need to tell him to stop. If he doesn't, then talk to your mom.

I'm planing to drive from Melbourne to Darwin, what advice do you guys have for me??

Advice regarding which way to take, where to rest, what to take and any other useful information would be greatly appreciated.I'm planing to drive from Melbourne to Darwin, what advice do you guys have for me??
Hi mate,


Big trip your planning there.





The drive is quite long and boring and there is limited stops available in most parts of the journey.





The best way to go is definately through Adelaide, then onto the Sturt Highway to Port Augusta.





You need to make sure your well stocked when you leave Port Augusta, get plenty of fuel on board, and make sure you have lots of water, food, and first aid supplies.





From Port Augusta you have a very boring drive of about 250 kilometres until you get to Glendambo where you can refuel and restock, you then have another long stretch to Coober Pedy.





From Coober Pedy it's about 200 kilometres to the next stop at Cadney Roadhouse, and then about 80 kilometres to Marla.





It is essential to have plenty of supplies from Marla onwards.


It gets very hot and the drive is extreemly boring.





It is another 200 kilometre plus journey to your first next stop in the Territory at Kulgera Roadhouse.





From Kulgera you go through Erldunda in about 80 kilometre, then it's a 200 kilometre journey to Alice Springs.





From Alice you have a few available stops to refuel and restock in Ti Tree Roadhouse, Barrow Creek, Wycliffe Well, Wauchope, Tennant Creek and Three Ways.





Its another long boring drive to Renner Springs, about 125 kilometres. From here you have stops every 50 to 100 kilometres right through to Darwin.





In between towns there are places you can stop and rest for a while, though there is no facilities available at them road side stops.





A good idea for a first time traveller through the outback is to stop in at Police stations in towns along the way, let them know where your heading, that way if anything was to happen the Police will be able to work out where you might be.





Also be very weary of road conditions, there is a lot of dirt and gravel roads which can be dangerous to drive on at times.


This is a list of items I have to go by for when I travel through the outback, hopefully you find it useful too.





2 spare wheels, rope, radiator hoses, fan belts, rubber fuel hose, head and tail light globes, fuses, spark plugs, engine oil and coolant, plenty of fuel and water, tarp or something to use for shelter from the sun, fuel filter, air cleaner element, putty, silicone, transmission oil, nuts and bolts of assorted sizes, high strength adhesive tape, hammer, saw, chisel, screwdrivers, pliers, tyre pump, puncture repair kit, jump leads, spanners, shovel and an axe.





Make sure you have a very well stocked first aid kit because medical help is very hard to find. Take water for drinking and water for your car, plenty of food in case of emergency and it also pays to have your car serviced prior to leaving.





There is so much to do and know about when it comes to outback driving, make sure you do your research first because it is a very long and boring drive, it can be hard, hot and dangerous, in the end though it can be enjoyable if it goes well.I'm planing to drive from Melbourne to Darwin, what advice do you guys have for me??
Just to counter the depression caused by micks answer, there are lots of wonderful spots to see along the track in the Northern Territory, including Matarranka and Litchfield Park. Of course, as far as Im concerned any road is boring, its getting off the beaten track and seeing the sights that makes a trip worthwhile.
Try going to the RACQ website - Trip Planner.


It will give you lots of good and valuable information, including printable directions and road reports.





You can choose either a short (condensed) version of directions or detailed version.





They say going from Melbourne via North Adelaide, Port Wakefield, Port Augusta then up the Stuart Highway to Darwin will take 43:37 hours (no stops included).


Distance by that route would be 3753.09 kms.





I hope you have an enjoyable trip.

My sister is looking to find a carreer do you guys have any advice?

so don't like to stay home alone


usualy she likes to go out alot


she is planing to take iternational business


do you think it is a god career to study and work?


please give me as many advise as you can!


thanks alotMy sister is looking to find a carreer do you guys have any advice?
Yes and no, it really depends on her. International business is not just traveling around having a good time, there are many other factors that need to be considered; e.g. international accounting standards, international law, culture and language. It is hard to succeed straight from college into an international role, generally people need experience with in the company. But if she is motivate enough and has the drive I am sure she will go OK.

I plan on moving out and getting a car can you guys give me advice on how to do that in the next few months?

Get a place that is not too expensive and then get a roommate.





Don't get a new car, because that will kill you.





Get a nice used car.

Why are the hot guys always taken or just looking for a hook up? Any advice on how to bag a hot guy?

Im in college so basically its ridiculously hard to do...Why are the hot guys always taken or just looking for a hook up? Any advice on how to bag a hot guy?
hook up with them and show them how good you are and then they wont want to go to someone else cuz they'll always have you to bang... simpleWhy are the hot guys always taken or just looking for a hook up? Any advice on how to bag a hot guy?
that's almost impossible because hot guys will only ';settle down'; if they find the right girl. A girl that's different from the rest.
They know they're hot and know they can easily go from one to the next without effort. Wait til your done college, its easier after that
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  • Guys advice! How do I talk to him?

    i've never talked to him before, but i like him, he's in one of my classes at school, and i facebook messaged him and we had out first casual conversation. we are both going to this dance over the weekend and i'm curious, how do i talk to him??Guys advice! How do I talk to him?
    Just casually bump in to him on the dance floor. I'm sure you'll be in a very good mood like everyone else there! Then just talk and ask him to danceGuys advice! How do I talk to him?
    just be yourself.... if he approaches you good, if not get him to notice you etc. then dance have fun

    Who do you think gives better advice, guys or girls?

    With respect to relationships...Who do you think gives better advice, guys or girls?
    I almost can't answer this one. If you're dealing with two guys, you're probably going to get better advice from a guy. If you're dealing with two girls, you're probably going to get better advice from a girl.





    A guy tends to have more perspective of a guy than a girl does. A girl has more of a perspective of a girl than a guy does.





    If you're dealing with a heterosexual couple, both perspectives have to get together to understand that one.





    The best bet, if you're dealing with a relationship that isn't your own, is to stay the hell out of it. They're going to demand a judge, and you're it. You're a better negotiator than I am if you can judge and not have at least one or both of them seriously bent out of shape at you and the anger redirected.





    The best advice I've received has come from sage old hair stylists and bartenders. Compared to the medical field, they're the general practitioners of advice.





    To go back to my original statement about perspective, you wouldn't take a lame horse to a welding shop to find out what was wrong with it.





    If it isn't your relationship, I'd say stay the hell out of the way. I have two friends that have been together since 2002. I always carry a soft side cooler and a box of small cigars when I go down to visit, that way I can walk off, have a beer and a cigar while they have it out. I'm not doing any favors getting myself into the middle of it.





    DWho do you think gives better advice, guys or girls?
    I think the level of knowledge one has plays a big role in advice giving. For every person there is, there ought to be another of the opposite sex with better advice. In the end, I believe it depends on how well one responds to the advice or how well they can relate themselves.





    I don't believe we can judge whether males or females have better advice. It all comes down to the person themselves.
    with different perspectives from both sexes, it all depends on the person, and on experience as well. Furthermore, I am not sounding rude, but it seems like a difficult question to answer, lol!
    I think it depends on who's asking. If the person asking is a gay male, I would guess that another gay male could relate better than anyone else. That's one of the reasons I very seldom answer relationship questions asked by women.
    Well it obviously depends the person, but in general I would say girls IN MY EXPERIENCE.
    girls muahahhahahahah just kidding. both of them
    hi dear








    girls can give a better advice.....

    Does this sound like an attractice body to you? (Guys advice more favorable =) if possible)?

    A 15 yr old girl.


    Around 5'5'; for height.


    Very slender, but not so you can see her ribs.


    Very muscle toned but not beastly or boyish muscle.


    Small hips, more of a straighter body but still has some hip curve.


    I often get called wicked tiny.


    32 A Cup.








    Is this attractive to you?Does this sound like an attractice body to you? (Guys advice more favorable =) if possible)?
    Most definitely.**

    What do you think? ( About this boy? ) I need some guys advice?

    My Boyfriend is my total opposite.


    But besides the point, (guys) is talking on the phone boring for guys? thats what my bf claims, but most girls i think enjoy talking on the phone to their bf's. and just for some opinions, do you think its healthy not to talk on the phone everyday, even if you dont see that person that much?What do you think? ( About this boy? ) I need some guys advice?
    you kno wut...i got the same problem...ma boyfriend hate talkin on da fone, an he will onlii talk on IM or text.....i think you should go wut i do, an jus forget about it...i let it beat me up for so long...y care so much when he doesnt...try talkin to otha friends dat you enjoy talkin to an stop waitin for him to make a change...





    ReeReeWhat do you think? ( About this boy? ) I need some guys advice?
    I'm a guy and I don't like talking on the phone, even if it's with my girlfriend. Maybe he doesn't get privacy and people listen in or he prefers to communicate when you are together. Alot of guys like to do things, not just sit there and talk, thats the joy of a relationship, to work with the opposites, it's what makes a reltionship interesting. Once a week on the phone for about 5 minutes is enough for me, maybe your boyfriend is the same
    some guys hate talking on the phone. some love is just as much as most girls do. there's no rule that says you have to talk to your bf on the phone every single day. it might be too much for your bf. of course, it's another story if you both love talking on the phone. try instant messaging or emailing. you don't need to be in contact with your bf 24/7. good luck!
    Most men don't enjoy long, drawn out telephone calls. If you want to talk on the phone all day, talk to your girlfriends. When you talking to guys, don't try to involve them in your marathon conversations. It's boring!
    I personally like to keep my phone convos under around 20 minutes or less even to the best of friends. Its just so inpersonal (also i gotta pay my own phone bills). But of course for people who dont have the personal freedom at this stage of their life it may be difficult to just go out and see that person when they please.





    Dont take it personally, its just not a guys thing and it might never ever be a guys thing. You may just need to get over it :)
    I personaly dispise talking on the phone lol. the girl i'm seeing now i think gets kind of mad about it but ohh well... not mad just like ';what the hell'; you know? but I don't talk on the phone every day to her, nor do we see each other that much (maybe twice a week) So to answer, I guess it depends on the guy and the situation your in

    Can anyone help me with advice? ( guy advice ) guys answer me only no nerds please?

    how can i get a boyfriend??? and flirt and tell if a guy i like flirts back.








    also how cxan i become friends ith a guy.








    a guy i like smacks my but grrs at me and always laughs with me ut he says were like siblings? what should i do.Can anyone help me with advice? ( guy advice ) guys answer me only no nerds please?
    you go SO YOUR INCISED????????Can anyone help me with advice? ( guy advice ) guys answer me only no nerds please?
    Next time the guy you likes smacks your butt, ask him if he wants to be more than friends. He will say ';we are like siblings';, then you say do you smack your sisters butt? You will know then whether or not if he likes you. Good luck, hope I helped.
    just tell him to stop

    Asking guys for advice: this keeps happening and its ruining my mood?

    okay. a guy shows interest or asks you out but you dont like him so you end up rejecting him. then he hates you and kinda become your sworn enemy. this keeps happening and its bringing me down and is making me feel guilty like i have REALLY wronged them. i know its immature from their part but its hurting me. how can i take this more lightly? i hate it being in this situtation. thanks.Asking guys for advice: this keeps happening and its ruining my mood?
    Try saying that you are seeing someone next time.Asking guys for advice: this keeps happening and its ruining my mood?
    if you dont like them, owell.. they will have to get over it, just be yourself and everything will be fine
    Maybe it has to do with your approach to rejecting them.





    If you're overly callous, they're going to feel as though you're being spiteful about it.





    That isn't to say you should be overly nice and ambiguous about it. A simple, ';I'm not feeling a connection with you, sorry. Good luck.'; should cover it.
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  • Can you guys give me some advice on how to get into the WWE? Do you guys think I can make it into the WWE?

    i want to make it into the WWE. i know some ways how to get into the WWE. like going to FCW (Florida Championship Wrestling) but can you give me some more advice. and also do you think i can make it into the WWE? I'm in great shape and i am very didicated.Can you guys give me some advice on how to get into the WWE? Do you guys think I can make it into the WWE?
    good luck if you know people in the wwe who can talk to you getting a contract if could not hold your breath go to tna first and become big which is pretty easy there just saying...Can you guys give me some advice on how to get into the WWE? Do you guys think I can make it into the WWE?
    ADVICE: Its not going to be simple.
    try to learn mma
    you wont make it wasting your time on yahoo answers. you need to be out there working on it. plus, FCW isnt their main developmental territory, OVW (Ohio Valley Wrestling) is. and you dont just go there, they have to sign you to a developmental contract.
    Hey kid, firstly i'd like to commend your spirit, it seems to me you really want this, so for that, well done.


    Now onto the tough bit, i'm a Professional Wrestler here in England i work for Real Quality Wrestling, and let me tell you for a small promotion i hard to work incredibly hard just to get on there roster.


    Now although it may seem like it, WWE doesn't just accept ANYONE into F.C.W, one of my good friends whom i used to train with has been there for 2 years now, and he's one of the best athletes around yet he still hasnt had his break. The thing is, in terms of WWE's style of booking, it isnt how dedicated you are, it isnt how skilled you are, its how big you are. Thats basically the jist. So my advice to you fella, is if you REALLY do want this, work 5 days a week in the gym make yourself big. Train with a small local promotion and work your way up from there. At least if you gain a reputation for being dedicated and good (ala CM Punk) WWE will surely notice you at some point.


    Good luck kid.


    Hope this helped.


    :)

    Hey guys please advice me what shall i do after my diploma in mechatronics engg.presently i am in last year.?

    i want to do under graduate in mechatronics only,and i am also not a merit listed student,please do give me some response my friends.Hey guys please advice me what shall i do after my diploma in mechatronics engg.presently i am in last year.?
    Apply for entry into the 2nd semester of BE Mechanical.


    If there are enough seats and your marks are good enough for the college, you should be able to get direct admission.Hey guys please advice me what shall i do after my diploma in mechatronics engg.presently i am in last year.?
    if you want to do ug in mechatronics do be in mechatronics.. it is not necessary that you have to be a merit listed student.. just a pass in diploma is enough for doing bachelors of engineering..





    all the best!!

    Thanks guys for interesting and valuable advice on my last question'; I need advise, am i being too shallow';?

    As advised by most of you, I decided to give this guy a chance, and we started dating. I was falling in love all over again, and just then he decided to finish it with me. His reason being '; he has family issues (very complicated) and therefore, he might end up taking his frustrations out on me. What do you guys make out of this now??Thanks guys for interesting and valuable advice on my last question'; I need advise, am i being too shallow';?
    Sounds like he's trying to extricate himself from the situation by blaming it on other things and letting you down gently.Thanks guys for interesting and valuable advice on my last question'; I need advise, am i being too shallow';?
    Well if am honest sounds like he is trying to find and escape goat, i.e every one has got issues in there lifes and every one has always got sumthing happening with one or another family member but it doesnt stop the world going round, and if he really liked you and wanted to be with you then nothing nothing would get in the way.
    its just an excuse - no one finishes with someone they like for a reason such as this
    Sounds like his to scared to tell you the real reason. Or maybe he has feelings for you but dosent think it will work so he makes up something so he want hurt u. This normally happens if your really close and his actually a decent dude.

    I'm a girl scared of Dating...... Womens and guys advice help!!!?

    I have a question I'm a girl and almost 16, should I start dating I'm actually nervous to. I m still a virgin and have not got my first kiss. I want to wait for my husband. What do you think I should doI'm a girl scared of Dating...... Womens and guys advice help!!!?
    I think when you are ready to date, you should. There are plenty of guys who would want to date you, and make you feel special. It's okay if you are still a virgin, there is nothing wrong with that. Same with your first kiss, it will happen when it is supposed to happen. And, if that means waiting for your husband, that is perfectly fine. If you start to date someone who doesn't respect those beliefs you have, they aren't the one. If they truely want you forever, and love you with all their heart, they will wait for you. I hope everything works out.I'm a girl scared of Dating...... Womens and guys advice help!!!?
    Its kinda cool to hear that you are still a virgin at 16. I mean most girls are not by this age. I was a virgin until I was 20, now I'm 21. My bf was my first everything.. and honestly its ok if you're nervous, about dating because sex %26amp; boys are serious business. Relationships require a lot of emotional investment, and energy.. so I think you're right on track... honestly no one is perfect, so you might meet someone (before marriage) who you'll trust enough to have sex with and that's ok. just don't rush yourself, if your nervous it means you might not be ready just yet.. but you will be soon and you'll know when its right for you... if you wait for marriage that's great as well, take your time and don't compromise you'll be proud of yourself at the end of the day... Hope this helps!!! :)
    I think no matter what age you are dating makes you nervous. I'm 28 and have a 7 yr old son and still get just as nervous about dating as I did in High School. Good for you for wanting to wait till your married to have sex. You need to not put your self in a situation were it could happen. Maybe meet for a movie or to get a bite to eat with friends. Group dates are a good idea. Stick to what you believe and don't let anyone pressure you. You can't hide from dating because you need to date and meet people to see what you eventually want. Put up the rules with any one you go out with and stick to them.
    you should start dating around your age. otherwise you won't know what kind of guy you would want to be with for the rest of your life. keep your virginity for your future husband but a first kiss should be achieved by the end of your teen years. definitely save your virginity for your future husband. and i understand why you would be scared. i mean why go through all the hurt that comes along with a relationship then be traumatized? but honestly, you don't learn unless you make mistakes. get out there and have fun, but be safe. being in a relationship can be quite comforting actually. you'll have someone to cuddle you during movies, eat lunch or dinner with, and celebrate valentine's day with (or any holidays).
    I was scared of dating when I was a little younger than you, but you warm up to dating pretty quickly. I find it's actually good to date, because then you'll know what qualities you want and don't want for that husband you want to wait for. If you marry the first guy you date, chances are you saved yourself for a guy who will take advantage of your lack of experience.


    You can still date without putting out. Good luck :)
    i think you should date guys who feel the same as you do about life. if a guy has respect for you he will wait for you. if you cant find a guy then its god will that you stay single. dont be scared of dating.(i was for the longest time.) it is what you do when yu find someone you like not what you do because everyoneelse is if you dont want to date no one will make. but its best if your ok with the idea of dating ask you get older.


    hope that i helped =D


    mare bear
    Take this advice from a guy...if it means that much to you to stay a virgin thats cool you dont see much of that anymore. You can date all you want just dont give it up because a man who is truly in love with you will wait for you whatever it takes. Trust me girl it will take time to find the right man because most of us are always thinking about one thing and as far as kissing goes...go for it, plant one on that boy your thinking about right now hes not going to mind. Remember nobody was born a good kisser its all about the practice and everybody has been scared on a first date. Be yourself stand up for what you believe and always follow your heart.
    OMG i'm older and still the same, im 17


    but when your ready you'll know, dont rush anything, wait and see if you find someone you want to date and take it easy, but plese dont give in to peer presure, about dating, and sex,





    have faith in yourself and you'll know when your ready





    i dont know if this will help, but hope everying works out =]
    honey- your 16, and never had a boyfriend? u need to get dating. when u date, u find someoneyou love who could potentially turn into your boyfriend, i mean yes, you are still in highschool, but you shoudl at least start, get use to it. i mean i doubt u will marry your highschool sweetheart, but like really, you should date, and get to know how to be around guys, and kiss, and in college everyone has sex, so unless you have a purity ring or somethinn, idk what to tell ya
    you are going to get kissed you are going to fall in love and if you want to wait for sex until you are older than wait


    if the guy your with puts pressure for you to put out DON'T stick to your guns and wait...if a guy really loves you he will wait until it is the right time for you not him.


    I made that mistake when I was 18 and my girlfriend was 16 she wanted to wait and I put so much pressure on her to have sex with me that I ended up breaking up with her, I was really in love with her and have always regretted it.2 years latter we went out again even got engaged but it was never the same because I was such an idiot that after I left the first time she slept with her next boyfriend afraid that he may leave as well. and when we got back together it just wasn;t the same I really wished I waited for her I think we may still be together if I had. hope I helped a little
    16 is a good age to start dating. GAHH!! i cant believe there are like 10 year olds dating!! haha. im 14, and im also scared of dating. because im scared that ill end up really liking them, and then just get my heart broken..... and yes i do think its a very very good idea to save your virginity until marriage, you will have no regrets. umm... i dont really have any experience with dating....just wait until a guy asks you out, ooorrr you can do something to make you stand out so that more guys will know you..and admire you.. haha i dont know..
    If you don't feel ready...don't force it. There is no rush. I was always told don't look for someone else...let them find you. Well I never listened...I constanly had a boyfriend. Finally after the last one broke up I just spent time alone and with my friends. I'll have you know I randomly met a nice boy and we eventually married about 2 years after dating. Point is we just met...neither of us was looking to date. Dating is akward though. Theres no real rush. Why don't you just have fun and if some nice boy wants to spend 1 on 1 time with you, if you feel comfortable go on a date with him. I admire you for wanting to wait for marriage. Don't let anyone discourage you from that or try and change your morals. Its well worth the wait.
    Honestly it is hard to FIND a husband if you don't date a little bit. Im not saying you should do anything with them but if you don't get to know different people it's hard to figure out what you do and dont like. Even if you think you want something you may find you do not.





    For example Im very independant and I thought I wanted a guy who leaves me alone, then I found one, we'd go a week at a time without talking, and it upset me. So I realized I want someone who lets me have my space but still shows he wants to talk to me etc
    Just do what you want to do. I do think that there is anything really scary about dating, it's just gaining more knowledge and developing a deeper connection with a person you like. If there are opportunities for you to date people that you like you should take them before you end up having regret later on. You can keep your virginity while dating too if you want.
    Its ok! If you want to start dating you can. But if not it doesnt matter. Just dont date any guy though, make sure its the person who you can get along with or can see yourself with. Dont rush into relationships....bad idea! And make sure your first kiss is with someone you wanna kiss cause if a guy kisses you and u kiss him back but dont care for him, it sucks! So wait for the special guy to come along :)
    if you're scared of dating then don't do it. so what if you're still a virgin and haven't kissed anybody. what matters is your feelings. there are a lot of great guys out there. you're not gonna marry your first boyfriend or w/e when you're 16 so wait until you're ready. and if you wanna wait for your husband, then do it!
    put yourself out there.don't be scared to show who you really are and don't be somebody that somebody else wants to see.don't be nervous about dating just cause of those things.whatever is meant to be will always find a way,don't rush nothing just give it time %26amp; if a guy wants to come into your life don't be scared to let him in.just see how things work out for ya!
    holy crap woman u don't have to have sex on your first date! i hav the same situation, u will go on several dates before u hav to worry about staying a virgin. After a while if he starts to get physical just talk to him about it and a guy who is worth worrying about will understand and repsect u for that :) good luck, go for it!
    This depends, are you really the most successful filmmaker? If you are, you should do whatever you want. You're very successful. If you're not a very successful (specifically, the most successful) filmmaker, I just don't know what to tell you.
    Your young, you dint have to date right now. You can a have a BF and not have sex with him. Just tell (when you get) your bf that your waiting until marriage and if he makes a fuss dump him. Waiting is good i wish i didn't give my ex (*****) my V-card =P





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    Answer mine!!
    honey ull never find ur ';husband'; if you dont start lookin





    it might make u nervous at first but dating is hella fun and a great experience. ur young, and only young once so LIVE IT UP HON!!!!!





    if ur not comfterble tho then just wait





    u can read a book while ur waitin
    if you start dating now, ur gonna be caught up in a lot of drama, and pain.


    you should wait until you find someone who you know treats you right and wont only use you for sex.





    take your time, dont look for someone let them come to you
    wow reading this kinda makes me regret some of the decisions i have made in life. i think u should keep that perspective (the waiting part)





    try doing little things like socializing with guys more often.it should warm u up a bit =)
    i am in your EXACT same situation. for me i just keep remembering that i am my biggest ally and will always be there for myself. no matter what happens you have yourself. it lets me feel secure.
    It's perfectly normal to be nervous to date. I suggest you seek out shy guys, they help with your confidence and self-esteem.
    Wait a few years or maybe start dating guys that you know you don't want, that'll warm you up
    do what your gut tells you. you sound like a very intelligent girl.


    Don't rush into something you aren't sure of
    whenever your ready


    its time will come you don't have to rush it so for right now just enjoy the young life
    a guy will never actually like u if you dont give him sex on the 1st date

    For the guys....advice when wife is in labour?

    hi all, my best friend is close to full term and her hubby is fully stressed out. I have three kids and myself and my husband has tried to calm him down. All my kids were induced so i was always in a hospital setting.


    Any advice from the dad's out there???For the guys....advice when wife is in labour?
    She knows her body. Let her decide what is best(with advice from the doctor or midwife)Be her advocate when she can't talk. Water with a straw, always get it for her. Count slow, but not too slow. And whatever she says in labour that's bad about you, she doesn't really mean. Oh yeah, when you cut the cord, keep your mouth closed, blood does squirt out a bit.For the guys....advice when wife is in labour?
    Sorry, I'm a woman, but...





    He needs to know that the best thing he can do for her is just to be there. She will be able to make requests of him during labor (like back rubs, foot massage, getting her things or even just holding her hand).





    My hubby is going through this too. We are having a home birth (first baby) and I am 6 days overdue, so he is getting really stressed. We have talked about it together and with the midwives and he admits that the root of his problem is that he feels helpless. He is afraid because he feels his role is undefined and he doesn't know exactly what to expect. He feels like he has no control (and he doesn't, lol). I am reassuring him that he just needs to be there and be supportive, that's it. He also admits that he is afraid of my pain and afraid that he won't be able to handle seeing the ';blood and guts'; involved. I assured him that he doesn't even need to be down there, but can sit by my head and not have to look. (though I think he will be missing out :) He is more fearful and apprehensive than I am and I am the one who will ultimately be doing the work!





    I would recommend that your friends husband talk to his pregnant wife and the caregiver about what he is feeling. He will be fine and do what he needs to do, that is all he CAN do.





    I think most of the time for men this is an issue of control and the fear of losing it. He needs to surrender to the process and just accept whatever comes. He really is incapable of doing anything else anyway.





    Our poor men are so fragile, aren't they! :) Bless them.
    Ask him why he's stressed out?


    Fear of being a dad / losing wife etc? I'm sure you can answer any concerns if you explore what it is that has him so anxious.


    End of the day, tell him millions have done it, it's fabulous, do what's natural and love his wife by caring for her with back rubs / getting drinks etc.
    my babys daddy was the same, tell him just to talk to her, hold her hand and tell her how well she is doing. she'll thank him for it later.
    sorry I'm a woman to but i got to answer this. my husband was wonderful during both my labors best thing he can do is just be there. tell her he loves her and when it over let her know she did a good job. and thank her for giving him a child.

    Guys advice quick, best answer in 3min 10pnts?

    i reeeeeeeeally like this guy he's 2years older than me(we're both in highschool) we're both online on facebook. we talk sometimes, but only when it relates to classwork..i wanna say whatsup but it's kinda random so what should i say?Guys advice quick, best answer in 3min 10pnts?
    tease him first!


    that way you're not showing him any interest but still talking with him.


    just playful stuff like ';haha you have bunny ears'; and stuff like that.


    then just gradually show him interest...make him chase you.Guys advice quick, best answer in 3min 10pnts?
    Hey, did you get the homework tonight? I forgot to write it down(if you have homework tonight)





    Other than that, try the ever popular ';hey, whats up?'; or ';how was your spring break so far?'; (I have spring break so I just assumed) you did too) lol
    well


    a how you doin?


    what you up to?


    wats cooking gwd looking? haha


    something that makes him desribe his day or something


    other than work
    How you doin and go on from that..?
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  • For the guys....advice when wife is in labour?

    hi all, my best friend is close to full term and her hubby is fully stressed out. I have three kids and myself and my husband has tried to calm him down. All my kids were induced so i was always in a hospital setting.


    Any advice from the dad's out there???For the guys....advice when wife is in labour?
    She knows her body. Let her decide what is best(with advice from the doctor or midwife)Be her advocate when she can't talk. Water with a straw, always get it for her. Count slow, but not too slow. And whatever she says in labour that's bad about you, she doesn't really mean. Oh yeah, when you cut the cord, keep your mouth closed, blood does squirt out a bit.For the guys....advice when wife is in labour?
    Sorry, I'm a woman, but...





    He needs to know that the best thing he can do for her is just to be there. She will be able to make requests of him during labor (like back rubs, foot massage, getting her things or even just holding her hand).





    My hubby is going through this too. We are having a home birth (first baby) and I am 6 days overdue, so he is getting really stressed. We have talked about it together and with the midwives and he admits that the root of his problem is that he feels helpless. He is afraid because he feels his role is undefined and he doesn't know exactly what to expect. He feels like he has no control (and he doesn't, lol). I am reassuring him that he just needs to be there and be supportive, that's it. He also admits that he is afraid of my pain and afraid that he won't be able to handle seeing the ';blood and guts'; involved. I assured him that he doesn't even need to be down there, but can sit by my head and not have to look. (though I think he will be missing out :) He is more fearful and apprehensive than I am and I am the one who will ultimately be doing the work!





    I would recommend that your friends husband talk to his pregnant wife and the caregiver about what he is feeling. He will be fine and do what he needs to do, that is all he CAN do.





    I think most of the time for men this is an issue of control and the fear of losing it. He needs to surrender to the process and just accept whatever comes. He really is incapable of doing anything else anyway.





    Our poor men are so fragile, aren't they! :) Bless them.
    Ask him why he's stressed out?


    Fear of being a dad / losing wife etc? I'm sure you can answer any concerns if you explore what it is that has him so anxious.


    End of the day, tell him millions have done it, it's fabulous, do what's natural and love his wife by caring for her with back rubs / getting drinks etc.
    my babys daddy was the same, tell him just to talk to her, hold her hand and tell her how well she is doing. she'll thank him for it later.
    sorry I'm a woman to but i got to answer this. my husband was wonderful during both my labors best thing he can do is just be there. tell her he loves her and when it over let her know she did a good job. and thank her for giving him a child.

    Guys advice quick, best answer in 3min 10pnts?

    i reeeeeeeeally like this guy he's 2years older than me(we're both in highschool) we're both online on facebook. we talk sometimes, but only when it relates to classwork..i wanna say whatsup but it's kinda random so what should i say?Guys advice quick, best answer in 3min 10pnts?
    tease him first!


    that way you're not showing him any interest but still talking with him.


    just playful stuff like ';haha you have bunny ears'; and stuff like that.


    then just gradually show him interest...make him chase you.Guys advice quick, best answer in 3min 10pnts?
    Hey, did you get the homework tonight? I forgot to write it down(if you have homework tonight)





    Other than that, try the ever popular ';hey, whats up?'; or ';how was your spring break so far?'; (I have spring break so I just assumed) you did too) lol
    well


    a how you doin?


    what you up to?


    wats cooking gwd looking? haha


    something that makes him desribe his day or something


    other than work
    How you doin and go on from that..?

    GUYS ADVICE WANTED: Is it still attractive to have small boobs?

    I want to know exactly what guuys from age 11-18 look for in a girl. I need to know whats the big picture.





    And is it okay to have small boobs? Still attractive?GUYS ADVICE WANTED: Is it still attractive to have small boobs?
    small boobs are fine...as long as u gotta a big booty is all goodGUYS ADVICE WANTED: Is it still attractive to have small boobs?
    The big picture? LOL





    Some guys like small boobs and some guys like big boobs. Pretty much the same as some guys like fat women and other guys like drug-infested, de-hydrated skinny women





    I'm not a spring chicken anymore, but I do appreciate a pic of the perfect boob. Big enough to play with, yet small enough to suck on. Anything more than a mouthful is a waste.
    every fella has different attractions,yea sum like big boobs,sum like smaller ones.


    dnt worry bout it too much your still developing anyways.


    and if a guy doest pay u attention coz of wat size of boobs u have then he obviously isnt worth it anyways.


    i was 17 wen i started dating my fella and he was 21,i had b-cup boobs and im really tall so they looked invisable but i was a late developer and now im a dd cup, so dont worry too much hunni.
    ...just be a girl and dont be a *****. i like girly girls that dont complain about everything. As for looks, just take care of yourself, and be comfortable with how you look. Nobody is going to like your looks if you don't like your own looks. Now for boobs. Pretty specific but...i don't always care about boob size. As long as they can still be called boobs im pretty much fine with them. For me, i don't even like huge boobs(especially fake ones). They just look bad to me. If all you can think about is your boob size, then you need to know what a real man looks for in a girl. Just normal boobs are fine. Ignore them for now and think about other things about yourself.
    Boobs are what shallow guys look for first. I dont find it unattractive if a great looking girl (facial and otherwise) has small boobs.





    But there's still everything else to look for in a girl - smile and great personality are the clinchers for me that gets me really liking a girl.
    Absolutely in my eyes all girls are beautiful in their own way and that's what makes this world interesting !





    Live your life not caring what others think and be happy and I hope you'll find a true man that appreciates you for who you are, a guy that will love you no matter what.





    Best





    Jordan
    girls come in all shapes and sizes in every area. luckily each guy has their own preference for each area





    some guys like big girls some guys like small girls some guys like big boobs some like small some like tall or short some like big butts or small butts





    so u have nothing to worry about ive know guys who like small boobs and guys who like big boobs but end up with a girl who has small boobs and love everything bout her
    Okay, I'm not a guy but I am a girl with A-cup boobs and a boyfriend who loves them. We're both nineteen but we were 18 when we started going out.





    Also, you shouldn't really date until you're in high school at the least. Anything younger is... well, you're just asking for trouble.
    if u got a booty thats realllyy sexyy too i mean come on.. a nice juicy booty.. men dnt want girls dat are skinny.. we like girls with meat on dem.. girls get all skiinny and anorexic for no reason.. cuz if u have nuthin on ur body.. and ur just a stick.. wtf are we gnna do with u in bed? we're like gnna break u.. and den if we want to like ur ***** or **** u in the ***.. its gnna be hard.. so dnt get to skiiinnyy.. its a turnofff.. and i like my women.. even if dey dnt have no titties.. just as long as its not too skiinnyy
    It's not so much the looks that I like about a girl so much as her personality. Personalty I'd look for a girl that can have a good time, has a sense of humor and can relate to me.





    Oh and in my personal opinion, I like smaller boobs. Just not flat XD
    If it fits your body then it's all good, if you are heavy with little boobs that's no good. As long as you have a nice booty, great curves and a face they can get lost in boobs aren't that big of a deal.
    Small ones are fine. Listen, none of the girls I have ever been attracted to have big ones.





    Personality is far more important anyway :-)
    Is it okay to have small boobs? Yes it is. Are you still attractive? Of course. In the big picture boobs don't matter.
    I find men look at the whole picture. Looks, personality, body type.





    Some like big, some small and some don't care.





    Don't worry about them .. they will grow I promise you.
    big. small. medium.. all depends on how everything else looks.
    All guys like different things babe! Plus small boobs can be more attractive than big..its the whole package that they look for...including personality x
    Get a great personality, boobs etc. comes later
    To be perfectly honest- Big boobs are scary to me.
    Yes it's all in the personality.
    definetly, i dont like gurlz with big ones
    all guys that age want boobs, bums and talk about sex you recently had even if you make it up x
    My girlfriends boobs are small and I love them. And it makes me mad but other guys like them too.
    its not the boobs baby...
    personaly i like small boobs more than big
    i love small boobs because its handy buddy....
    Yea small boobs are the best! lol but personality is key!
    honey- don't ask a guy something like that.
    boobs are boobs no matter what shape or size girl !
    u better have a preety face then!
    Seriously? No its not ok.
    Um when was that ever attractive?

    I need a guys advice about a boyfriend?

    i got asked out and said yes and when me and him hang out he seems so shy and im not sure if he actually likes me or asked me as a joke whats do you think .I need a guys advice about a boyfriend?
    my boyfriend was like that and so was i


    its just going to take sometime cause its a new relationship and hes most likely nervous, dont worry if he doesnt like you or anything like that he'll come aroundI need a guys advice about a boyfriend?
    i think hes just shy... like alot of guys r like that... im like that too... and u guys will become more comfortable together as time goes by
    hard to tell.sounds like it took him a lot of courage to ask you out,cause he is shy.but now has to get some more courage to be more talkative.so be patient.
    He's probably new at this and is shy because where you hang out may be in places where he could be under scrutiny from his guy friends, and it sounds like you are at that age where guys can be pretty torn between what their friends can think and say about him hanging out with a girl. You need to choose places to hang out where he doesn't have to worry about being razzed by his friends.
    Guys might be very shy ! Stay with him and hopefully your guy will realize that you love him and not to be shy . Don't be shy around him , and he'll know that it's great to be with you .

    Can you guys give me some advice on how to dress more stylish?

    set your own style. you do not have to be like everyone else to fit in. be what makes you happy.Can you guys give me some advice on how to dress more stylish?
    Just make your wardrobe more interesting with earrings or accessories. Go to stores and hang out at the mall to find some stylish ideas you like.


    Try some cute spring skirts and light colorful jackets. Also try more color in your wardorbe. Experiment.Can you guys give me some advice on how to dress more stylish?
    I absolutely agree with ';bettyboop'; or check out some fashion magazines for inspiration.
    earings,mini skirts, capris, and cool shirts that are on style now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    to dress more stylish just go casual but not ot casual and flanty but not to flanty find a good medium you want to stand out but u wanna keep that cool sorta laid back feeling around you and add accessories always ad accesories ecxept when you are wearing like sweaters or hoodies try this get some big hoop earrings and like a darkish brown shirt and a sash belt( preferbaly light brown or dark brown) with some cool comfortable shades and some faded jeans with like a white jackets or hoodie and white or brown shoes or white or brown flip flops that always work
    take some old jeans, splash a little bleach on them and sew on sequins here and there, then buy a tight , white belly shirt and iron on some words such as angel or daddy's girl and then buy a nice new black purse and iron on the first anitial of your name in WHITE no other color, you can do the same thing to other outfits except you could change the jeans into a skirt or ange the color of the t-shirt. GOOD LUCK!
    depends on your age, work and budget.


    in europe, females dress more feminine. for example, i have never seen a couple of my friends in trousers.
    well maybe spice it up with earrings, purses and depends on your style for clothes

    What is the best advice that you can give...(guys and girls okay)?

    What is the best advice that you can give to a pregnant woman. I am 6 weeks pregnant with my first child and I really don't know what to expect. I have yet to have any morning sickness and I feel tired alot.


    Basically what I am asking is what worked and didn't work for you. What things should I make sure to stay away from, what were your guilty pleasures, etc. Feel free to share as much or as little as you want.What is the best advice that you can give...(guys and girls okay)?
    I agree with the first answer. It seems like every pregnant women reads way to much and doesn't listen to their body. My doctor gave me very good advice early in my pregnancy! Don't listen to what you read on the internet or in most books. These people are usually not doctor and although may have good intentions don't really know what they are talking about! If I ever had a question I was supposed to call the doctors office and not look in a book. She said more women make themselves crazy over reading let your body do it's job we are made to make children healthy babies survive. What is the best advice that you can give...(guys and girls okay)?
    Nothing is normal and pregnancy...and always expect your morning sickness to be back or just waiting to return.


    Just listen to your body, take care of both of your bodies, and use common sense (even though you feel like you can never think while pregnant).


    And most importantly, you're pregnant not dead (or dying), so have fun and try to enjoy!
    The best advice I can give is listen to your own body...when your tired sit down and put your feet up, if your body is telling you something is to much for you to do dont do it. Congratulations =]
    Don't tell the whole world you are pregnant until after your first trimester. Second, relax and enjoy the pregnancy (even if you get morning sickness, keep in mind that it's temporary)


    Congrats!
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  • Is this a scam! i need you guys advice i got this deal off of craigs list?

    Subject: Re: 1999 Audi : A4 QUATTRO AWD Perfect Condition Carfax - $2900


    If you are interested in buying the car you have to know that once you receive it you have 2 days to test drive it and to inspect it,and if you find that it is not like I said,you can send it back on my expence...but I'm sure that won't be the case...(the car is in perfect condition).


    The protection works like this.


    After starting up the transaction at eBay Protection Program, my money which are deposited in their safe account will blocked untill the end of the deal, so I won't be able to withdraw them until we've finished the deal.


    You make the payment to eBay Protection Program you have to send the money to the eBay agent not to me so in this case


    i can't touch your money untill you receive the car.In case you will not receive the car as i described to you,eBay will refund you with 100% from the whole amount which you paid to the eBay agent.Even in case you will not receive the car,they will refund you the money.But this is not the case.


    Also, I have to let you know that I want the payment priorr shipping since I will shipp it in the same day or next days the payment is complete .For the moment I can only accept a wire transfer as a payment method and the fastest is Western Union.


    After they check the payment they announce me to start the shipping.


    After you will receive the car and see that is ok, you have to announce them that you have it.


    Only then, eBay Protection Program will send me the money. I will not receive any money before you will receive the car.


    In order to begin the deal please send me your full name and your shipping address so that I will let eBay Protection Program know that you are interested .


    You will receive an email from them instructing you about how to send payment


    Thank'sIs this a scam! i need you guys advice i got this deal off of craigs list?
    Scam... Anyone that wants you to Western Union or Wire the money I would stay clear of, plus this person does even write properly. If you are interested I would ask for references. Plus, according to Ebay you need to purchase the car through Ebay motors.Is this a scam! i need you guys advice i got this deal off of craigs list?
    Stay far away from this.
    Scam. Steer clear.
    This a typical Craiglist scam. I buy and sell cars on Craigslist on a fairly common basis. This car and many like it are listed everyday.


    A good rule of thumb is ';if it sounds to good to be true, it is';





    check out http://www.craigslist.org/about/scams.ht鈥?/a> for more information on common Craiglist scams.
    my son uses ebay alot,as far as i know you can't make seperate deals to collect money,sounds very shakey to me,i never trust anyone who spends most of my time telling me how honest they are
    Yeah, no. . .Sorry, it sounds like a scam. After all they can't make the rules, generally every state has a ';lemon'; law, where you can return a car not in condition stated for 30 days, so their 2 day limit right away is a warning signal. And it seems sort of pushy, plus who has ever heard of payment like that. . . I mean, sure it could be a nice honest guy. . . .Depends how attached and risky you want to be with 3 grand.
    That's a scam, a safer way is to send me the money via western union and have the seller ship me the car. After i get the money and the car, i'll give it to you, i promise.





    sound stupid? So does that ad.
    Scam-a-rama.... anytime they pressure you with time and money that mean's it's time to run....
    It sounds complicated and I would be afraid to buy a car that way. Also, if it is for sale on Craigs List then it is probably not actually associated with eBay and therefore a scam. Check with eBay about this to be sure.





    This link will take you to the eBay Motors Buyers Services and Protection page:


    http://pages.motors.ebay.com/services/ov鈥?/a>
    any time thay want you to use money gram, western union or some other foreign change thingy, its a huge scam.
    well the eBay protection program is real, but didn't you say that you found it on Craig's list. anyways just make sure that is where your money is really going. check and make sure the email that you receive is authentic not just one that he copied or created himself. in my experience working with eBay i have always been satisfied and have never had a problem getting in touch with them. once i had a seller take like three months to send my purchase to me and i contacted eBay via their customer service link and they responded to me quickly and contacted the seller. i received my purchase a few days later.


    Just be thorough and be a smart buyer. good luck!!
    Yes it a scam. Those are worth 6,000 to 14,000 depending on condition. I use Craigslist a lot and there is always some idiot on there trying to rip someone off. With that site DO NOT buy anything off of there unless you see it in person and it has a clean title. Craigslist relies heavily on complaints from other users to patrol the site and they have little to do with fraud control. They aren't like Ebay to where you have to have an account to list things.
    SCAM.....Not sure how it works...but they are trying to hard to prove they are being honest. Report them immediatly!!!!!
    If it sounds too good to be true............................
    sounds like a load of crap to me!
    SCAM!!!!!! Guaranteed!

    Hey guys, could you give me some advice on getting more views on my YouTube videos?

    I promote my channel on MySpace, Twitter, my Yahoo Profile.





    So if you guys know of any YouTubers looking for video responses or hosting YouTube contests, could you let me know? Thanks.Hey guys, could you give me some advice on getting more views on my YouTube videos?
    Hiya!


    I know alot of people are just sending messages through the personal message section, just saying please add me and they are getting hundreds of extra subscribers!


    This one Israeli painter I am subscribed to has a 100,000 views on some of his paintings. I actually don't like them but I like to support struggling artists :)


    Oh yeah and I just got 2 more messages today from people asking me to subscribe!


    So I think that's the latest way of getting people, message them directly!


    Yeah and I agree with the other comments too looking hot and sexy gets subscribers, so if you can tart yourself up a bit it can only help!!


    (Umm....er....This is not a comment on your personal appearance I have no idea what you look like ok!, I'm sure you look fine!)Hey guys, could you give me some advice on getting more views on my YouTube videos?
    ok..





    1. more tags


    2. post video responses


    3. gain more friends on youtube


    4. comment more peoples videos and they will return the favour


    5. sub 4 subs ---%26gt; i will view your vids if you view mine for example...and i do sub 4 sub =]





    http://www.youtube.com/MaddieLouxx
    If you're a girl show more skin... That will get more views. If you're a guy show something devious.
    Try and make videos of Adverts for your new video and put your video's name when you comment on other videos
    You need more tags, Things that people search for.





    Edit them to ';skateboarding'; or '; a b c d e f g'; or ';lol'; etc. People look at them type of videos
    Tags
    More funnier and less boring... try that.

    Hey guys i need your advice on making out with a girl. answer my questions?

    should i open my mouth first or should she?





    should i rub my hands on her thys?





    should i take my shirt off? or let her do it?





    what to do if someone interups us while making out?





    should i lick her? if so were?





    my eyes should be closed? or open?





    how to get the girl to makeout with me...?














    hey can u copy all the questions then put the answer below the question?that would help a whole lot.Hey guys i need your advice on making out with a girl. answer my questions?
    well don't just straight up open your mouth on her you have to communicate without talking give her hints





    move your hands all around and she where she reacts well.like head,rub her back(but if you start to tickle her might wanna stop) so girls like if you grab there butt but i makes some girls feel slutty,if it gets really hot then u kind of hit a wall get her to sit on your lap.





    doesn't normally happen when you just makin out but let her do it but help her





    someone interrupting shouldn't happen go somewhere private but if it does just stop acknowledge them and then slowly work your way back up with her





    if you lick anything it would be her lips but just alittle bit go other places if it gets really freaky





    eyes closed when ppl open their eyes it looks wierd because you get cross eyed





    dont just go for it talk to her were your face to face and make those silent moments alittle longer than normal and look at her eyes and if shes lookin at ur lips lean inHey guys i need your advice on making out with a girl. answer my questions?
    okay to start with if this is going to happen just let it there is a DNA blue print to fallow lol but here gose nothing





    should i open my mouth first or should she?


    its best to slowly and sortly open your mouth and if she start opening up then you can go at it.





    should i rub my hands on her thys?


    one more time this depends on her and if she moves closer to you





    should i take my shirt off? or let her do it?


    Let her its all about making her feel safe if she stops then your not going to be getting any tonight





    what to do if someone interups us while making out?


    if this happens its best to see how she feel if she push is you away then get off





    should i lick her? if so were?


    that all depends on you and yeah her :)





    my eyes should be closed? or open?


    you should have a bit of both you need to look at her so she nows you are there and you need to take time to your self because its wierd if you just keep looking





    how to get the girl to makeout with me...?


    i like this one lol you have to get a girl to go out with you and then just see how it gose if its going well then you can make a move if not then keep it to your self lol good luck XD
    should i open my mouth first or should she?


    -at the same time u don'tt want to look like an idiot if you just do it.





    should i rub my hands on her thys?


    - who even does that when there making out??





    should i take my shirt off? or let her do it?


    - it sounds like if u guys are going to have sex.





    what to do if someone interups us while making out?


    -make sure your some were private and i dont think anyone will interup.





    should i lick her? if so were?


    -once again your not having sex especially if this is the first time your making out with her.





    my eyes should be closed? or open?


    -they should be closed who makes out with there eyes open.





    how to get the girl to makeout with me...?


    -well if you know that she likes you then just start talking to her but flirt and try to get her inot thinking of making out with you.
    should i open my mouth first or should she?


    you go first





    should i rub my hands on her thys?


    yess but gently not innapropriatly





    should i take my shirt off? or let her do it?


    unless this is ssex nooo shirts of unless she wants it





    what to do if someone interups us while making out?


    ignore them they will leave trust me





    should i lick her? if so were?


    neck only and mouth obviously





    my eyes should be closed? or open?


    closed really awkward open





    how to get the girl to makeout with me...?


    flirt, juts go witht he floww
    If you can't spell ';thighs'; you're not old enough to be making out.
    ';should i take my shirt off? or let her do it?';





    LOL are you guys making out or having sex?
    should i open my mouth first or should she?





    open yours first and go for sticking your tounge in her mouth if your tounge hits her lips she will get the idea and then you two will hit it off!





    should i rub my hands on her thys?





    you can start it that way or you can put your heads together and look into one anothers eyes and kiss and keep kissing making it longer and longer each time then you start





    should i take my shirt off? or let her do it?





    it really depends on the type of girl she is does she want it or not? is the question and can you make her want it in order for her to take your shirt off? Id suggest laying on a couch with her then getting over top of her and laying on her and making out and if you turn her on she will rip that shirt right off lol sometimes she just dosnt wanna go far at first sooo respect her and dont push it or this will be your last time making out with her





    what to do if someone interups us while making out?





    if your parnts dont make it toooooo noticable and if its anyone else who the hell cares lol





    should i lick her? if so were?





    you can lay on top of her and kiss her stomach lifting her shirt up slowly and licking her waist line and stomach or instead of giving her a hickie lick her neck and breath really warm in that area like you just ran a marathon but dont make it creappy doing this will give her chills and shell love it and you can nipple on her ear lobes and if you get what I mean by this lick them and her hear trust me sounds weird as fu(k but she will get soooooo wet its not even funny!





    my eyes should be closed? or open?





    closed it feels a lot better but open if your affraid of getting caught





    how to get the girl to makeout with me...?





    complements and make her feel comfortable snuggle and be close then kiss her and keep kissing her one after another making each longer and then start making out

    Guys advice please!: what sort of things can make you fall for a girl?

    I like this guy and we know each other moderately well. weve been chatting more recently but i was wondering if you had any tips on how i can get him to like me. im pretty sure he doesnt but we dont know each other that well yet. tips or ideas please?Guys advice please!: what sort of things can make you fall for a girl?
    Get know him.... Ask him to hang out sometime. Do something fun.... Talk... and hang out. Get to know each other.Guys advice please!: what sort of things can make you fall for a girl?
    doing more activities together is prob the best thing you can do. and like others said make sure you dont act like something your not.
    Just get to know him. it's not good if you MAKE a guy fall for you by being something you're not. When you know him and he knows you, if he's into you, he'll fall for you.
    Try to be a feast for all his senses. Think of ways you can delight them one at a time. First his eyes (cause he'll see you before anything else) so try to look nice so he'll want to keep looking at you...make his smell happy by wearing some nice perfume...you're on your own for hearing..maybe you have a giggle or something you could do a lot that he'd find cute...offer to share your lunch with him and make sure there's some strawberrys in there to give him...make him touch you in some way...show him how soft your hair is or something..if you go for each and every one of his senses then everything he does during the day will remind him of you...and that's the best way to get a guy to fall for you...
    ask him out to a sical event, movie, bowling somthing liek that.


    work on becoming vbetter friends and see where it leads from there.





    Most of all, find a common interest.

    What advice to you have for guys that flirt with their toilet instead of a woman?

    Forget about him.What advice to you have for guys that flirt with their toilet instead of a woman?
    Look up young man!What advice to you have for guys that flirt with their toilet instead of a woman?
    get a job cut your hair
    did u take ur meds today???


    get over him make out with the shower head!!!
    Professional help needed
    tell him to always wash his hands after that
    Cool down, you look a little flushed!
    Tell him to pop a squat.
    I have advise for YOU...





    GET OFF THE DRUGS!!!
    put down the pipe or the drugs
    go hang yourself fool
    Shoot him
    Tell 'em to quit drinking so much.

    Guys i need your advice. what is your favorite pair of oakleys?

    im looking to get my boyfriend oakley sunglasses whats the best kind that guys like the most?? i need to know what color, what shape, what frame, what color lens? help me out.Guys i need your advice. what is your favorite pair of oakleys?
    Oakleys suck mega ***Guys i need your advice. what is your favorite pair of oakleys?
    There's not an individual model that's ';best'; or ';best for guys.';





    Depends on if he'd use them for athletics, or at the beach, or in more formal settings, etc.





    He also needs to try on individual models to find what fits him best individually. Some things can be too small or too large for various people, etc.





    Buy based on function and fit first, and brand last. Good odds you'll end up with Oakley (or something similar), but worry about the other stuff before you worry about brand.
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  • Ok i really like this guy alot guys and girls advice please?

    ive known him since kindergarten and have liked him on and off for a while now. He is always teasing me and just being kinda rude sometimes. Some of my friends thinks he likes me but i really dont know????!! plaease help!Ok i really like this guy alot guys and girls advice please?
    You first should analyze your relationship with this young man. If you find that you truly like him then you should just be yourself and tell him what you are thinking. Remember time waits for no one, so instead picking petals off of a flower and saying to yourself ';he likes me...he likes me not'; just be direct and tell him how you feel that is the only way that you will know for yourself. If he is a good guy then he'll be honest you. Besides, you owe it to yourself not to waste your time or his.





    Hope this helps =0)Ok i really like this guy alot guys and girls advice please?
    Try subtly askign him/get soemoen to ask him who he likes or if theres anyoen hes got his eye on, just take the plunge. My boyfriend and I were realyl good friends for ages like 8 years and I nearly lost him beacuse I didnt tell him, but when I id we've been so happy. we've been nearly 7 months goign out now :)
    maby he does like you. Just start a conversation and ask him who he likes, berfore its too late.


    good luck :)
    yea ask him
    Ask him, how are we supposed to know?

    Need Guys Advice On This One!!!! PLZ Help! How to deal with jealous ex bf's!?

    Well my ex is constantly getting jealous of me talking to other guys! we fight almost everyday. he is the one that broke up with me, saying half of him wants to be with me and the other half doesnt. he wants to be friends, but he still gets jealous! its hard for me because if i a friends with him, im either going to want ALL his attention, or nothing to do with him at all! so wut do i do???Need Guys Advice On This One!!!! PLZ Help! How to deal with jealous ex bf's!?
    wha u need to do is jus go hang kick it ur home girls and look fo a different crowd to kick it wit, u kno instead of around him and his homies thats how i got all my ex's lol they came and kick it wit me instead of their vatosNeed Guys Advice On This One!!!! PLZ Help! How to deal with jealous ex bf's!?
    Only way is not having him apart of your personal life. So do not tell him ****. Do not give him your facebook password. Actually, chill less with him than you usually do. You need to show that you are in control and going to do your own thing. He lost out on a great. Now, you have to show him that
    well just do your own thing, have fun and just think of him as NOT your ex. don't answer his calls, texts just say your busy. %26amp; if not then just be honest with him %26amp; tell him how you feel.





    hope i helped :)
    My Dear Friend,


    you can behave with your ex like a mirror . When some time passes everything will be allright because time is the best medicine in this world.

    What advice on guys would u give to an female freshmen in college?

    Freshmen hardly get any respect because it's their first year away from home and they want to party party party. I even talked to a girl who was in high school and was going to college and she said she was going to go crazy. College guys just eat that up. You have the guy who will want to take advantage of you, the ones who will truly be your friend, and the ones who just won't give a f*** about you because you're a freshman. So just recognize those main types and decide what you want. I guess you don't want to be taken advantage of, you want the friends, and you want to prove to the older students that you should be respected.What advice on guys would u give to an female freshmen in college?
    Not to refer to yourself as ';Hot College Freshman'; if you want a decent man to take interest in you.





    Edit: Notice the difference between my answer and his? I guess, in truth, it depends on what you want. If you want a man who is going to respect you and have decent morals and values, go with my answer. If you want a guy to have fun with -in multiple ways- and just overall screw around with, go with his philosophy.What advice on guys would u give to an female freshmen in college?
    get involved and enjoy your college years
    dont skip any of your classes.
    be HOT and flaunt it while you got it for a few more years.

    What advice do you women have for guys that have a paralyzing fear of crying in front of women?

    Try it with someone you trust with all your heart. You may find it to be one of the most liberating experiences of your life.


    We all have times when we need to express ourselves and tears are a natural part of that.


    Give it a try if you ever need to. Once you conquer the fear you will see how senseless it was. Good luck.


    Peace, Love %26amp; HappinessWhat advice do you women have for guys that have a paralyzing fear of crying in front of women?
    Paralyzing? Never seen it. But I have known men who simply WON'T cry--in front of women OR men. The emotions will out in another way, just not through tears. If someone is not comfortable displaying intense emotions in front of others, it is pointless to attempt to push them into it. The same holds true of pushing someone to do ANYTHING they are not comfortable with. It's better to become aware of how that particular person's emotions will manifest and understand that that is how they are going to emote. Unless it manifests in violence or abuse of someone else, let them feel and emote in the way that is most comfortable to them. What can be gained by encouraging someone to display feelings that later become a source of embarrassment or regret for them?What advice do you women have for guys that have a paralyzing fear of crying in front of women?
    well, everybody cries.


    it's normal to cry when you feel sad, when you see a sad movie, or when you lose someone special. but, crying because someone else ate the last granola bar, or that gilmore girls got cancelled is a little bit weird :/
    My advice is to find the right woman who is sensitive, caring, and unconditionally loving....and LEARN to open up. If you don't, you will alienate your life partner in the future
    Men it is ok if you cry in front of me i will understand
    i think every man needs to try it at least once...but find some girl you trust and you may find that it is not that bad:)

    Guys I want some advice on girls sending pics?

    I know this girl and I know she thinks i'm incredibly hot, all her friends have told me she thinks im hot. she always texts me and i wanted to see if i could talk her into sending pictures of herself. what do you guys think is the best way or strategy to talk her into sending pictures of herself?Guys I want some advice on girls sending pics?
    well it depends if this girl trusts you or not. i have one had experience with sending pictures like this and i am a girl as well. first we have to be able to trust you with things. us girls are very conscious with our body's. don't rush into asking for the pictures or you may not get the response that you want. trust me when it comes to this if a guy just rushes into that kind of stuff just tell them to **** off and get a life because they just rush straight into asking instead of getting to know me for who i am first!!! i hope this helps you and if you nee ed more advice just ask me!!! TRIGGY!

    How can I get a guy to like me!!!!? (guys advice is helpful too!)?

    There's this guy that i've had a crush on that won't seem to go away, and i only have one class with him. how can i talk to him or start a conversation casually and make him like me?How can I get a guy to like me!!!!? (guys advice is helpful too!)?
    Here are 9 ways to make him like you:


    1. Act sexy around him


    2. be nice to him


    3. flirt by asking him about something he likes


    4. get to know him more


    5. call him or text him more often


    6. smile whenever you see him


    7. say hi to him in the hallways


    8. give him complements


    9. laugh at all of his jokes


    Here are 6 signs that he likes you:


    1. he tells you irrelevant stuff


    2. he smiles back


    3. he flirts allot


    4. he hangs around you whenever he can


    5. he sticks up for you all the time


    6. he will do anything for youHow can I get a guy to like me!!!!? (guys advice is helpful too!)?
    look at his clothing to see if he wears any kind of specific thing( band logo, or car pics) and act like you what he likes or you could start with just saying hi and talking about random things you think he might like but if he acts like he isn't interested in what you are talking about end the conversation and act like nothing happened. But don't worry you can try again the next day. If he talks to you and you can tell he is interested in you (smiling at you in the hall or looks nervous when he is arround you) then hang out with him even more. So, good luck.
    The best way to get a guy to like you is to be yourself. If he doesn't like you for who you are then he isn't worth the time of day.





    So a few easy steps





    1. Be yourself


    2. If you want to talk with him, just do it. the worst thing that can happen is that you will find out he isn't worth your time and you can move on.


    3. If he is worth your time be sure to stay your self, there is nothing worse than finding out that the person you thought you knew doesn't exist...


    4. From the sound of it your still in school, this is not the time in life to have a relations ship past just being friends, you have allot of life to live and you don't want to lose it all because some guy knocks you up and you end up being a pregnant teen.





    Education is your best bet out there so keep at it.





    Have a good day.
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  • Okay guys i need some advice...How can you tell if a guy likes you?? What are some key signs?

    Well if you must know why i think my friend likes me but I'm not 100% sure and i just want some guy advice on how to tell if a guy like a girl.lol Thanks for the help...and yes i know that every guy is different so yeah.lolOkay guys i need some advice...How can you tell if a guy likes you?? What are some key signs?
    here's a few signs:


    1.)if he is mean to you ALL the time


    2.)if he follows you(stalker lol)


    3.)if he smiles and looks at you


    4.)if you and him 101 talks texts nonstop


    5.)if you guys are always lonely and stars DEEP into your eyes


    -MikaylaOkay guys i need some advice...How can you tell if a guy likes you?? What are some key signs?
    if he looks at u alote,if u guys have mutual friends and one of them is talking to u hell join the convo,if he trys to sit or stand next to u,if hes kinda quiet around u
    if he looks over at you alot. minehttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    He acts real stupid around you
    if hes always happy when hes around u....calling u...texting u....always saying nice things to u....blah blah..the list goes on...

    Guys i need your advice. what is your favorite pair of oakleys?

    im looking to get my boyfriend oakley sunglasses whats the best kind that guys like the most?? i need to know what color, what shape, what frame, what color lens? help me out.Guys i need your advice. what is your favorite pair of oakleys?
    Oakleys suck mega ***Guys i need your advice. what is your favorite pair of oakleys?
    There's not an individual model that's ';best'; or ';best for guys.';





    Depends on if he'd use them for athletics, or at the beach, or in more formal settings, etc.





    He also needs to try on individual models to find what fits him best individually. Some things can be too small or too large for various people, etc.





    Buy based on function and fit first, and brand last. Good odds you'll end up with Oakley (or something similar), but worry about the other stuff before you worry about brand.

    Ok i really like this guy alot guys and girls advice please?

    ive known him since kindergarten and have liked him on and off for a while now. He is always teasing me and just being kinda rude sometimes. Some of my friends thinks he likes me but i really dont know????!! plaease help!Ok i really like this guy alot guys and girls advice please?
    You first should analyze your relationship with this young man. If you find that you truly like him then you should just be yourself and tell him what you are thinking. Remember time waits for no one, so instead picking petals off of a flower and saying to yourself ';he likes me...he likes me not'; just be direct and tell him how you feel that is the only way that you will know for yourself. If he is a good guy then he'll be honest you. Besides, you owe it to yourself not to waste your time or his.





    Hope this helps =0)Ok i really like this guy alot guys and girls advice please?
    Try subtly askign him/get soemoen to ask him who he likes or if theres anyoen hes got his eye on, just take the plunge. My boyfriend and I were realyl good friends for ages like 8 years and I nearly lost him beacuse I didnt tell him, but when I id we've been so happy. we've been nearly 7 months goign out now :)
    maby he does like you. Just start a conversation and ask him who he likes, berfore its too late.


    good luck :)
    yea ask him
    Ask him, how are we supposed to know?

    Need Guys Advice On This One!!!! PLZ Help! How to deal with jealous ex bf's!?

    Well my ex is constantly getting jealous of me talking to other guys! we fight almost everyday. he is the one that broke up with me, saying half of him wants to be with me and the other half doesnt. he wants to be friends, but he still gets jealous! its hard for me because if i a friends with him, im either going to want ALL his attention, or nothing to do with him at all! so wut do i do???Need Guys Advice On This One!!!! PLZ Help! How to deal with jealous ex bf's!?
    wha u need to do is jus go hang kick it ur home girls and look fo a different crowd to kick it wit, u kno instead of around him and his homies thats how i got all my ex's lol they came and kick it wit me instead of their vatosNeed Guys Advice On This One!!!! PLZ Help! How to deal with jealous ex bf's!?
    Only way is not having him apart of your personal life. So do not tell him ****. Do not give him your facebook password. Actually, chill less with him than you usually do. You need to show that you are in control and going to do your own thing. He lost out on a great. Now, you have to show him that
    well just do your own thing, have fun and just think of him as NOT your ex. don't answer his calls, texts just say your busy. %26amp; if not then just be honest with him %26amp; tell him how you feel.





    hope i helped :)
    My Dear Friend,


    you can behave with your ex like a mirror . When some time passes everything will be allright because time is the best medicine in this world.

    What advice on guys would u give to an female freshmen in college?

    Freshmen hardly get any respect because it's their first year away from home and they want to party party party. I even talked to a girl who was in high school and was going to college and she said she was going to go crazy. College guys just eat that up. You have the guy who will want to take advantage of you, the ones who will truly be your friend, and the ones who just won't give a f*** about you because you're a freshman. So just recognize those main types and decide what you want. I guess you don't want to be taken advantage of, you want the friends, and you want to prove to the older students that you should be respected.What advice on guys would u give to an female freshmen in college?
    Not to refer to yourself as ';Hot College Freshman'; if you want a decent man to take interest in you.





    Edit: Notice the difference between my answer and his? I guess, in truth, it depends on what you want. If you want a man who is going to respect you and have decent morals and values, go with my answer. If you want a guy to have fun with -in multiple ways- and just overall screw around with, go with his philosophy.What advice on guys would u give to an female freshmen in college?
    get involved and enjoy your college years
    dont skip any of your classes.
    be HOT and flaunt it while you got it for a few more years.

    What advice do you women have for guys that have a paralyzing fear of crying in front of women?

    Try it with someone you trust with all your heart. You may find it to be one of the most liberating experiences of your life.


    We all have times when we need to express ourselves and tears are a natural part of that.


    Give it a try if you ever need to. Once you conquer the fear you will see how senseless it was. Good luck.


    Peace, Love %26amp; HappinessWhat advice do you women have for guys that have a paralyzing fear of crying in front of women?
    Paralyzing? Never seen it. But I have known men who simply WON'T cry--in front of women OR men. The emotions will out in another way, just not through tears. If someone is not comfortable displaying intense emotions in front of others, it is pointless to attempt to push them into it. The same holds true of pushing someone to do ANYTHING they are not comfortable with. It's better to become aware of how that particular person's emotions will manifest and understand that that is how they are going to emote. Unless it manifests in violence or abuse of someone else, let them feel and emote in the way that is most comfortable to them. What can be gained by encouraging someone to display feelings that later become a source of embarrassment or regret for them?What advice do you women have for guys that have a paralyzing fear of crying in front of women?
    well, everybody cries.


    it's normal to cry when you feel sad, when you see a sad movie, or when you lose someone special. but, crying because someone else ate the last granola bar, or that gilmore girls got cancelled is a little bit weird :/
    My advice is to find the right woman who is sensitive, caring, and unconditionally loving....and LEARN to open up. If you don't, you will alienate your life partner in the future
    Men it is ok if you cry in front of me i will understand
    i think every man needs to try it at least once...but find some girl you trust and you may find that it is not that bad:)
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  • Guys I want some advice on girls sending pics?

    I know this girl and I know she thinks i'm incredibly hot, all her friends have told me she thinks im hot. she always texts me and i wanted to see if i could talk her into sending pictures of herself. what do you guys think is the best way or strategy to talk her into sending pictures of herself?Guys I want some advice on girls sending pics?
    well it depends if this girl trusts you or not. i have one had experience with sending pictures like this and i am a girl as well. first we have to be able to trust you with things. us girls are very conscious with our body's. don't rush into asking for the pictures or you may not get the response that you want. trust me when it comes to this if a guy just rushes into that kind of stuff just tell them to **** off and get a life because they just rush straight into asking instead of getting to know me for who i am first!!! i hope this helps you and if you nee ed more advice just ask me!!! TRIGGY!

    Okay guys i need some advice...How can you tell if a guy likes you?? What are some key signs?

    Well if you must know why i think my friend likes me but I'm not 100% sure and i just want some guy advice on how to tell if a guy like a girl.lol Thanks for the help...and yes i know that every guy is different so yeah.lolOkay guys i need some advice...How can you tell if a guy likes you?? What are some key signs?
    here's a few signs:


    1.)if he is mean to you ALL the time


    2.)if he follows you(stalker lol)


    3.)if he smiles and looks at you


    4.)if you and him 101 talks texts nonstop


    5.)if you guys are always lonely and stars DEEP into your eyes


    -MikaylaOkay guys i need some advice...How can you tell if a guy likes you?? What are some key signs?
    if he looks at u alote,if u guys have mutual friends and one of them is talking to u hell join the convo,if he trys to sit or stand next to u,if hes kinda quiet around u
    if he looks over at you alot. minehttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>
    He acts real stupid around you
    if hes always happy when hes around u....calling u...texting u....always saying nice things to u....blah blah..the list goes on...

    Need advice on getting in a guys favor?

    I met this really cute guy today at a camp that i volunteer for, he is a counselor as well. I really want to make a good impression on him because he is super cute and he has serious possibilities! Help me figure out how to get on his good side and how i know it is working! Thanks so much! IF you need more info just ask!Need advice on getting in a guys favor?
    push him in a corner grab his penis and kiss him if he kisses back your in if he dosnt your in trouble. LOLNeed advice on getting in a guys favor?
    Just be yourself. What ever you do dn't over do it. Make sure you stay calm around him and act natural. Maybe say some jokes if your funny but if not i wouldn't it'll just make him think your weird. just do wat you do best and if it doesn't work let him come to you

    Any advice you guys can give me on ';flipping'; a house for the first time?

    I'm new to the investor world. I just need some do's and don'ts on 'flip house' investing.Any advice you guys can give me on ';flipping'; a house for the first time?
    Know your numbers going in...in other words don't expect your profit to come from appreciation only. You have to buy right (yes, that means ';low';) in order to sell at a profit later.





    We have rehabbed foreclosed junkers for fun and profit. We ALWAYS took photos of the inside/outside before one piece of trash was moved or one nail was hammered. That allowed us to sell with no problems as the buyers Lender would look at the length of time we owned the property and the amount we paid (versus what it was appraising for after rehab...). The Lenders always approved when they saw the before/after pix.





    Go to the local Real Estate Investor meetings and network to find who the right rehab contractors are to work with. Always have a written contract with the rehab contractor(s) and do not advance money unless the contract is fulfilled.





    Be aware that any rehab will take longer than the longest projections that you receive so have enough cash/credit in reserve to last until sold or rented.





    Best wishes!Any advice you guys can give me on ';flipping'; a house for the first time?
    1. Know your market. Intimately.


    2. Know your rehab costs. To the penny.


    3. Know the building codes. Break the rules at your peril!


    4. Be able to do as much as possible yourself, keeping #3 closely in mind. Labor paid to someone else is profit you'll never see.


    5. Have trustworthy craftsmen for the parts that you have to sub out.
    Plan on the rehab taking twice as long as planned, costing 50% more than you planned and taking twice as long to sell the place once you have finished.





    Check out the book 'Flipping Properties' by Bill Bronchick. Also, see his site: www.legalwiz.com





    Good Luck
    Have a firm idea of what the lowest price is you are willing to accept. Realtors collude with each other and will say anything to bottom it out for the buyer.

    What would you do in this situation girls? and guys any advice?

    What would you do if you and your boyfriend broke up and you were going to spend the rest of your day with family and friends, what would you say to keep your mind off of things?


    What if there are chances of you two getting back together, what could you still say to yourself to keep busy and not think about the future and focus on having some fun for the day? What type of things could you say to yourself to stay calm and not be upset about everything? i guess you could just say im looking for some kind words please..


    Thanks a bunch :)What would you do in this situation girls? and guys any advice?
    Concentrate on what you are doing at the moment, of course thats easy to say but since there is nothing else to be done about it you have to try.What would you do in this situation girls? and guys any advice?
    spend time w/ them and try to keep my mind off my probs

    Sunday, December 27, 2009

    Girls advice needed and guys advice is welcome too.?

    A girl i just met asked me for my number... i asked her for hers as well and she said i won't give it that easy you need to work for it and gave me a flirty smile... then said can you walk me to my class again. Is this a good sign and if it is what should i do.Girls advice needed and guys advice is welcome too.?
    Ya, its a good sign.
  • clear cream
  • Christmas cake recipie please and advice? Thanx guys!?

    I have this vague memory as a child that my mum used to make the christmas cake quite early on. Does anyone have a recipie and how soon can u make it etc? Thanks alot. PS sorry for mentioning the xmas word!!!! LOL.Christmas cake recipie please and advice? Thanx guys!?
    Ensure this cake is made at least 3 weeks before Christmas(now if you're really in the mood!) , and then ice one week before the occasion.








    Ingredients











    12 oz plain flour





    1 tsp. cinnamon





    1 tsp. mixed spice





    陆 tsp. salt





    4 oz candied peel





    4 oz cherries





    2 lb. Dried fruit





    4 oz blanched almonds





    4 eggs





    4 tbsp. sherry





    Finely grated 1 lemon





    8 oz margarine





    8 oz sugar





    1 tbsp. black treacle








    飩?Sieve together all the dry ingredients.





    飩?Mix the peel, fruit, cherries, chopped almonds and lemon rind.





    飩?Whisk the eggs and sherry together.





    飩?Cream the margarine, sugar and black treacle until soft.





    飩?Add the flour and egg mixtures alternately to the margarine.





    飩?Stir in the fruit mixture.





    飩?Put into an 8-9 inch tin, lined with greaseproof paper round the sides and at the bottom. Tie a double band of brown paper round the outside of the rim, standing well up above the top of it.





    飩?Put in the middle of a hot oven. Bake for three and a quarter to three and a half hours at gas mark 3 for the first one and a half hours, and then decrease to gas mark 2 for the remainder.





    飩?Cool the cake in the tin, then store in an airtight container.Christmas cake recipie please and advice? Thanx guys!?
    There is a receipe in this months House Beautiful magazine, or it maybe Ideal Home, anyway one of them has a receipe and says it is really simple to make.


    Or, you could just pop down to M%26amp;S on Christmas Eve!!


    Have fun.
    These traditional christmas cake recipes come from my grandmothers on both sides of the family, both are great recipes that are easy to follow and have been tried and tested over generations of my family. Christmas cake can be served cold or hot. Make the cakes at least 3 weeks before Christmas, and then ice one week before the occasion. Need some icing ideas? View my christmas cakes





    Nanna's Browns Christmas Cake Grandma's Christmas Cake


    12 oz plain flour


    1 tsp. cinnamon


    1 tsp. mixed spice


    陆 tsp. salt


    4 oz candied peel


    4 oz cherries


    2 lb. Dried fruit


    4 oz blanched almonds


    4 eggs


    4 tbsp. sherry


    Finely grated 1 lemon


    8 oz margarine


    8 oz sugar


    1 tbsp. black treacle








    Sieve together all the dry ingredients.


    Mix the peel, fruit, cherries, chopped almonds and lemon rind.


    Whisk the eggs and sherry together.


    Cream the margarine, sugar and black treacle until soft.


    Add the flour and egg mixtures alternately to the margarine.


    Stir in the fruit mixture.


    Put into an 8-9 inch tin, lined with greaseproof paper round the sides and at the bottom. Tie a double band of brown paper round the outside of the rim, standing well up above the top of it.


    Put in the middle of a hot oven. Bake for 31/4-31/2 hours at gas mark 3 for the first 11/2 hours, and then decrease to gas mark 2 for the remainder.


    12oz Currants


    12ozs Golden raisins


    8oz Raisins


    8oz Brown sugar


    8oz Butter or Margarine


    10oz Flour


    4oz Mixed peel


    Glace cherries


    1/2 Lemon - grated rind


    Orange - grated rind


    2 oz Chopped almonds


    1-1/2 tsp Mixed spice


    1 tbs Black treacle (Molasses)


    Pinch salt


    5 Eggs


    Milk if required





    Cream together the butter and sugar, salt, mixed spice, treacle, add eggs one at a time. Stir in the fruit and flour in alternate batches until thoroughly mixed.





    Use a metal pan about 10'; wide x 5'; or six inch high, one with a loose bottom is best. Line sides and bottom of pan with wax paper allowing the paper to extend up over the sides by an inch.





    Put in round pan and bake at 325f for 1 hour and turn down to 300f and continue cooking for at least 2 hours and then check for doneness by inserting thin instrument until it comes out clean.





    Store the cakes upside-down (you put the icing on the bottom and sides) and leave for about 2 weeks in an airtight tin. Poke holes a few inches down into bottom of cake and pour over sherry or brandy. Repeat this procedure two or three times over a two day period. Keep stored in airtight tin. Roll out the marzipan and stick to sides and bottom of cake with melted apricot jam. Leave a few days to dry and ice with the royal icing.





    Icing Suggestion


    English christmas cakes traditionally involve a complicated two-tiered icing procedure - first a layer of soft marzipan icing followed by a cement layer of white sugar icing, known as royal icing. The women in my family dispensed with this tedious process a couple of generations ago, substituting with one quick and delicious layer of butter icing. This only takes ten minutes to whip up and protects the cake, keeping it moist and fresh right through the Christmas season and well into January.





    Butter icing


    175 g butter


    2 tsp vanilla essence


    500 g icing sugar


    3 tbsp rum or brandy





    Beat butter and sifted icing sugar together until creamy. Add vanilla and rum (or brandy). Cover cake with icing then with a wet fork make soft peaks across the surface of the icing.





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    We bake a stollen - it is lighter and far more fun, and better cooked on Christmas eve rather than a month in advance. I could be persuaded to put the recipe on my blog if enough ppl interested.
    Chocolate Fantasy Cake





    Torta Fantasia di Cioccolate





    SERVES 8


    If wrapped well, it will remain moist for a week. It also freezes beautifully for up to 3 months. Ricotta cheese can be substituted for the mascarpone.


    Ingredients.


    2 cups All-Purpose Flour


    2 cups sugar


    1 teaspoon baking soda


    1/2 teaspoon salt


    8 ounces (2 sticks) butter


    1/2 cup brewed espresso or other strong coffee


    1/2 cup orange juice


    1/4 cup plus 1 tablespoon baking cocoa


    1/2 cup mascarpone cheese, at room temperature


    2 eggs, slightly beaten


    2 teaspoons almond extract





    Preheat the oven to 350潞F. Grease an 8-x-2-inch round pan and set aside. In the bowl of an electric mixer, sift together the flour, sugar, baking soda, and salt. Set aside.





    In a saucepan, melt the butter. Remove the pan from the heat and add the coffee, orange juice, and cocoa, stirring well to combine. Pour the butter mixture over the flour mixture. Add the cheese, eggs, and almond extract, and beat the ingredients until the batter is smooth.





    Pour the batter into the pan and bake it for 35 to 45 minutes, or until a cake tester inserted into the middle comes out clean.





    Let the cake cool in the pan, then carefully unmold it onto a serving plate. Serve the cake as is, or sprinkled with confectioner's sugar.








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    Any good cookbook would have a fruitcake recipe. That's probably what it was -- you didn't describe the cake!!! This is traditionally made a month before Christmas, because the liquor needs to be applied several times to the cake and then mellow for a while.