I suck at talking to guys, any advice?

I get really nervous whenever i'm with the guy i like. because i get nervous i start talking and talking and sometimes i don't even know what i'm saying. i don't have a lot of experience with guys and i'm really shy so i always ruin everything. how do i talk to them?I suck at talking to guys, any advice?
Practice, Practice, Practice. I am not saying date a bunch of guys, rather find situations where you can make small talk. The more you talk to guys the easier it will get. Also if you really like a guy and he likes you he is more than likely nervous too. If you think you are talking too much you can also ask the guys questions about himself, its a win win. Everyone likes to talk about themselves, it will make you shut up and listen, and you will be able to learn more about him to see if you are really interested. I hope this helps girl!!!!I suck at talking to guys, any advice?
Just be yourself. if you get nervous it's no big deal I guarantee the guy is just as nervous. try to avoid topics that will freak him out ie. marriage, kids, long term relationship on the first date. other than that try not to talk too much but don't clam up either. Don't worry about it you'll find one that's a keeper. :)
talk about school- that's how i got past fear because you can ***** about teachers/exams/subjects etc and it won't get too awkward. just remember this guy isn' gonna eat you alive and he probably doesn't hate you either- he'll enjoy talking to you if you have some confidence


hope it helps :)
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You know how they say ';Picture people in their underwear'; for people with public speaking problems? Well, that essentially works in situations like this too. Imagining the person so that it makes them seem less intimidating makes you feel more comfortable. So maybe try that...
To be brutally honest blokes are not realy interested in chat.. as long as you look hot that is usually enough.. if you find the odd 'personality' male then a discussion about various sports may get your foot in the door.
im the same like that with girls i get really shy. but i find girls that are like you really cute its a big change from all the arrogant girls. you'll be fine if you just be yourself
do you know what i think should increase ur confidence ?





talking online first .


like instant messaging, and then after you really get to know each other . talk in person .
Less talk more touch.
Dress SEXY and just be you.... guys will come and talk. a few drinks will help
dont worry we dont listen anyway lol
be yourself, and if that doesn't work, DONT BE YOURSELF BE WHO THEY WANT YOU TO BE.
make believ you have known him your entire life.
talk to them in a group
just being urself might help
be ur self
Five major points





1. You cannot talk to men the way you talk to other women.





Women are almost always ready to share. If you woke your girlfriend up at three in the morning to tell her the details of your fight with your boyfriend, she could tune into what you are saying in about five seconds. Conversely, if you woke your boyfriend up to tell him anything important, it would be the equivalent of a bee sting. He would be jolted, disoriented, and a little mad. He would need twenty minutes to regroup and hear what you are saying.





SECRET #1: Don鈥檛 approach men for conversation when they are not in an approach mode. Give them time and opportunity to be able to listen to you. They want to be there for you and give you what you need, but you have to understand that they need to have distractions removed, time to focus on the conversation, and a clear and defined understanding of what you want from them.





2. Men have been programmed for centuries to take care of the family.





When you take any complaint to him, even if you are only crying because your hair came out green instead of blonde, he unconsciously thinks it is his fault. If a man feels he is not taking good care of you, (and complaints are translated into thinking you are not happy with him,) he experiences tremendous physiological discomfort. He hears your problem as HIS failure. Withdrawal is his protection in these situations.





SECRET #2: Don鈥檛 misinterpret the silent male or underestimate how much you mean to him. He is highly vulnerable to you.





3. Men do not heal from emotional wounds as well as women do.





Who cares more for their lover, men or women? If you answered men do, you would be right. In general, after divorce, men re-marry sooner than women do, don鈥檛 live as long as their ex-wife does, and their suicide levels go up more. When a man sees silence in the relationship, he thinks everything is fine. However, if a woman is not talking, she is probably planning to leave. Only 50% of men in a troubled relationship know there is a problem. The rest say they never saw the breakup coming.





SECRET #3: You give meaning to your guy鈥檚 life. You matter far more to him than either of you realize. Be careful and kind with your words.





4. Men relate to other people better by doing activities with them.





Women get a chemical hit from talking. Men do not experience this rush of feeling good when they are talking to someone. They often feel that words get in the way of experiencing the moment. Men get a rush of good feelings when they are taking action or are engaged in physical activity. They also love to share activities with their favorite woman.





SECRET #4: Find at least one activity that you both have a passion for and do it together. This strengthens your bond and gives him a sense of success.





5. Men love routine.





Men take comfort in routine. To change schedules, plans, or even homes, is upsetting for him. He wants his time to be free from turmoil so he can hyper focus and concentrate on taking care of his work, and ultimately, the family.





SECRET #5: Build some loving routines together. You might think that you are both just wordlessly watching TV, while he might see that activity as part of your togetherness. Predictable patterns in your relationship keep him grounded.





The above five secrets can change the level of happiness in your relationship. Add kindness and nurturing, and if you have chosen a good guy, you will have a new best friend. This is how you talk to a man.





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