Married people:I need a little bit of advice from you guys! I'm a little bit worried and just need your advice?

How often do you and your spouse fight/argue? Like everyday, once a week, not often? explain to me. is it over stupid things? examples are GREAT! im just trying to compare here.Married people:I need a little bit of advice from you guys! I'm a little bit worried and just need your advice?
Most arguments are about the dumbest things, like toothpaste in the sink, squeezing the toothpaste tube in the middle. Not putting down the toilet seat, not putting a new roll of toilet paper on the hanger. Not putting the rubbish in the correct bins (normal/paper recycle/garden waste).





Arguments can be a daily occurrence (especially if it's that time of the month - PMS). But generally they're laughed about in yrs to come %26amp; it's great fun making up.Married people:I need a little bit of advice from you guys! I'm a little bit worried and just need your advice?
Married people fight and argue over silly things more then non married couples because for one thing they are together more, they live together, they can't get away to their own ';space.';


This is why sex and intimacy plays a huge role in a marriage, at the end of the day the couple embraces each other and make each other feel wonderful and that small things they argued about all day really isn't that important in big frame of life, their love and devotion is.


Learning how to argue and closing it with tender touches, show of affection is healthy.
it depends on the period of the month and on the period in life. in winter when it was depressing and cold and boring we argued very often like for a month or smth. when it became spring and warm and cheerful we do not argue at all. well, maybe like a short argument for 5 min but very seldom. but we do not have any issues in our marriage at all
You have to understand that every relationship is different; every person has different morals and beliefs. What you have to ask your self is, are you happy in your relationship. People change and grow in different directions over the years, this is why people fall out of love, this those not mean the relationship is over but it just needs work. My suggestion is to stop and look what is causing the arguments and see if you both can try and fix it, it will not hurt to get some counseling if you really love each other.
we go through our phases, but almost everyday and really over stupid things.





My main argument with him which happens on a daily basis is that i tell him hes lazy and why cant he just clean up after himself, or if he leaves his tea bag in the cup i get really upset, or if he doesnt clean the yard it bugs me and believe me i get very vocal on these things. there was a time where we argued so much it made me depressed. but we worked things out. talking about issues is really great - it really makes a relationship work and dont just talk but listen cause when living with each other you become each other.
At least once a week, not fight, but argue or disagree. For example, I am a busy body. When I get home from work (I work a 40+ hour work week), I usually go outside to weed the flower gardens or something productive. He gets upset and says that I don't want to spend any time with him While im outside, he's either playing PS3 or watching UFC. Not really my type of entertainment.
Different people deal with life differently. I have been in several relationships over the 30 years of marriage and dating. Each has had it's own set of stuff. Some I fought all the time - some never until it was time to say good bye. What do you need in your life with this person and how can you facilitate a better relationship. Forget comparing - that is like comparing one child against the next. Different but still children and you love them just because of who they are. What is right for you? That is all that matters.
ok so me and my hubby fought once a day at least until i got on my meds. then it was hell for one week a month and now ive switched meds and we havent had a fight in 3 months. lol, and yes it was over stupid stuff but the major thing was always money.
yes, we argue everyday over pointless sh*t.
Every other day, over stupid crap. We're fine, though.