I'm an eighth grade guy who's never had a girlfriend of any kind. I Finally worked up the nerve to ask this girl i like (she's a year older and i don't know her too well) out on a date. She said yes, and we're seeing paranormal activity Friday...I like her a lot. So can you guys help me out? I've never been on a date. What should i wear? how should i act? Is it cool if i hold her hand or not?Um can i get some advice from my fellow guys?
Bro Cody:
You will do just fine!
AND ....
It's ok to feel a bit apprehensive.
Being nervous is a part of the package.
NOW~
Listen UP!
Show your date your *Emotional-Intelligence.
Be *calm %26amp; kewl. (Just don't act like an idiot. :-)
Wear some comfortable Dark Slacks.
Pick out a ';flashy'; *Unique sport shirt you have.
Have Fun at the Movie.
Hold her hand whenever it feels comfortable.
A soft arm, gently around a shoulder, ';works'; during the movie,
or while you are line.
You Lucky Dog!
I Wish I was Cody!
-.-Um can i get some advice from my fellow guys?
Dress nicely. I recommend you don't hold her hand until you have gone out a little longer. You have to be calm so many guys go on dates and sweat like crazy. Be nice, respectful, and considerate. I don't think the movies is the best place to take her because you really can't talk but after if you could go to grab a bit to eat you could talk about the movie. Open doors, and compliment her. It's best if you compliment something specific. If she is wearing earrings compliment those don't just say ';You look hot tonight'; Listen to what she says and respond thoughtfully. It's just a date and your in the 8th grade don't worry it gets easier and easier.
congrats man!
dress nicely but comfortably
act like yourself, dont pretend anything
about holding hands, im sure SHES gonna be the one clinging onto you with that movie hahha great choice xD
also, listen to the song first date by blink 182 to laugh hahah
you reminded me of it with ';is it cool if i hold her hand?'; cause the song says it (actually says ';is it cool if i hold your hand'; but close enough haha xD)
good luck!
ok bro,
dress nicer then you do at school it'll impress her and show her there's more to you off campus...
but dont over do it, 2nd if POSSIBLE whether it be a bootleg or a cheap copy or any way possible WATCH it before friday.. get all that scare out of you.. and you'll impress the **** out of her by not being scared..
you can show up in a tux and a limo, but if your scared as a girl it won't mean anything, you can show up with your mom as a shaparone and get there on the transit but if the movie don't scare you, you will look more bad *** then ever....
The only problem with a movie is that you guys cannot talk. If you are trying to start a relationship you need to talk a lot to get to know each other! I'd do something that involves conversation like going to eat...etc. You should try to look like you are trying to impress her (like wearing two popped collar shirts that are pink, a gold watch, stunna shades, etc. Wear a nice pair of dark jeans, casual shoes and a mellow colored polo. Do not cover yourself with cologne, or gel the crap out of your hair either, because they hate that. I'm not too sure how well you know her, but if this is the first legitimate time together, avoid hand holding because then it could be awkward. The farthest I'd go is to hug her before she leaves...NO BUTT GRABBING! haha, Good luck bro.
I'll help you man.
Wear like a polo shirt, nice jeans, sneakers coz you guys are just goin to the movies but not too much like your trying hard to impress her, just be comfortable. Act like you are watching a movie with a buddy, like when you see a scene thats funny, laugh. Act normal, dnt talk way too much. Definitely hold her hand when you get a chance. Then at the end of the night tell her you had fun or the movie is scary or whatever, then she might share some inputs about the movie... then when both of your eyes locked in give her a smooch...
deffinately nice jeans, and a good looking polo or a button up(only if you wear polo's regularly). change it up but dont act like your going to prom. Make shure you brush your teeth and your breath smells good. Be yourself too, thats why she said yes cause she likes YOU as a person, not some fake guy. dont get nervous, just relax and if your hands sweat when your nervous keep a tissue in your pockets so you can act like your getting something and just wipe them off. I work at a movie theatre and paranormal activity is kinda slow but it has its part that will have her wanting to hold your hand so dont worry( you made a good choice for a first date movie). Hope that helps and good luck.
It's been a while since I was in eighth grade, but this seems like a pretty easy question.
Wear the same clothes you would normally wear to a movie. Make sure they're clean, comfortable, and look new. Girls like shiny, new things.
Act like yourself. Ask her questions about what she is saying, and tell her that her point of view is interesting. But even this might be too complicated for a simple movie---just enjoy yourself smile at her every once in a while. Buy her some popcorn and juji fruits.
It is cool if you hold her hand, if she lets you. But don't get nervous about it---if it happens, great. If not, just as well.
Okay so listen up. You should wear a nice shirt and some jeans, this way its simple and you look nice (your too young to dress up). Act normal... ask her questions about herself to get her to talk, and add in some stuff here and there so its not completely a one way conversation.
You can hold her hand if you wanna go for it. But its your first date so you may just wanna take things easy this time around. But hell if your up for it then do it.
Btw don't look stupid watching the move... meaning no screaming.
Sorry, I'm a girl, but i just want to say that I know I've always thought that guys looked more masculine in a teeshirt than in a polo or dress shirt. So I would recommend wearing a nicer tee than you usually wear, but not dressing up more than that.
Also most important thing to a good date: HAVE FUN! she'll want to spend more time with you if you are relaxed and obviously enjoy her company. :)
okay.im in the eighth grade myself im 13 and im dating a 15 yr old. first of all. dress sorta nice. maybe a collared shirt. khaki pants. you know. pay for ';BOTH'; of ur tickets. go in the theatre wen the movie starts slowly start to move your hand towards her's and interlock fingers. dont cup ur hands. if all goes well during the quieter part of the movie turn and look at her. if she looks at you lean in and kiss her. it doesnt have to be long or anything. just a nice quick maybe 5 second long kiss. well thats all i can say. if you have anymore questions email is : Jordan.moore60@yahoo.com Goodluck man. :p
Ah sweet, I'm seeing that movie this weekend too. Supposed to be pretty good. :]
Just act casual, wear what you'd normally wear. This is an informal occasion; you'll be staring at a screen most of the time (maybe... ;] ). It's cool to hold her hand, and she'll usually give you fairly obvious signs that she wants you to. Also, if you are nervous, that's fine. Some girls find it cute.
drees nice with a nice shirt and jeans also show some nervousness but not to much if shes cute and that makes u nervous dont look at her too much. that will make her ask or wonder why u rnt looking at her so just tell her how nervous u r after the movie. or tell her if she askes. also grab a bite if u can so u guys can talk.dont go to fast or interpret signals rong. (i did that once cost me a cute girl XD) compliment her on specific things. k Hope this helps!
dont hold her hand before the movie.. maybe try putting your arm around her during the movie and if all goes well then go for holding her hand. now, you should wear like jeans and idk like maybe a polo? or something. just not a t shirt. dont dress up, but dont dress down. and finally, just act like yourself.
you will be fine bro, just wear something nice and comfortable, dont get nervous, and of course its cool to hold her hand, go for the kill man. Take it slow, if you dont feel comfortable to kiss her, then dont, just make sure you guys connect
aww how cute, im just be your self and wear something like nice jeans and a clean t shirt, and if you want to hold her hand just go for it. and if she gets scared just hold, don't make fun of her or laugh at her she will get mad. ok good luck
I know i'm not a guy... but i just wanted to say that i hate cocky guys and you sound nice... so just act like yourself and don't be afraid to show that you're nervous. It shows how much you like a girl.
yo dress nicee but not overdressed lke jeans and a nice shirt. dont be akward think about wat you can talk about. You can hold her hand or put ur arm around her w.e. works. Also make sure your breath smells good and put some cologne on
just wear what u wear to school unless its geeky ahah. just act normal, compliment her and see if she holds ur hand..
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be natural as possible. be friendly, accomodating and good compainion. holding hands will come later when you become close to each other.
Rule #1. Act like yourself!
Rule #2. Dress casually
Other then that, I don't know
make sure to borrow some of your dads cologne. do the yawn and stretch to put your arm around her
Hi. Sounds cool, that will be fun, unless ur clinging to her...
dont worry she will be clinging to u once u watch that movie..good choice man, good choice
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