Do guys REALLY care about your body and how hot you are??? Guy advice please!!!?

Do guys REALLY care about how much a girl weighs/ how fat/thin they are?? Do they also REALLY care about how hot they are? I am of an average weight and not too bad looking, but I just feel as though all the guys are hitting on/ staring at the ';hot, thin'; girls... help?


I'm not sure what to think anymore...





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Thanks!Do guys REALLY care about your body and how hot you are??? Guy advice please!!!?
the truth is yes and no. if you can make a guy laugh and we feel good around you then it doesn't matter. its all how you carry yourself. be proud of who you are.





p.s give me the 10 points. :)Do guys REALLY care about your body and how hot you are??? Guy advice please!!!?
well depends on the guys preference some like thin some like thick some like fat you never know but i have seen some guys say that girl is fine and she might be chubby but it really doesn't matter most guys like thin but in the south where am from they like am thin thick and big its all up to the guy and what he likes so if you going after a guy that like slim women it be a challenge to get him to notice you but if your just average depending on what you mean then am sure some guy will be attracted to you if you want to be notice go out more you know then you can tell exactly what most or majority likes hope this help
Most guy's do look at the thin, hot chic's when they are young and dumb. It's kinda of a maturing thing, we do eventually realize that these women generally don't make good companions. I almost feel sorry for them in later life because they are usually the ones who are searching for the right guy. So if you say you are average, I say good for you! You will do fine! Wait until college and beyond.



yes.some of guys really want a thin and hot girls. believe me, i conduct a survey to all guys i know, bout there prefer body of a girl.majority of them answer ';thin and hot';. but some of my friends they like a chubby type of body.but for me i want a slim body but not totally thin.but in the end, its up to a girl...


some of girl even they arent sexy but they are, beacsue of their confidence to theirselves.



my male friend told me something really obvious that i never thought about. im a chick but i think its a fair comment because we judge guys the same more or less





he said when you go to a party/go out, you hook up with a hot chick because shes at least hot, if you keep talking and shes a nice person, even better.. but your not gonna go for a less attractive one just incase (emphasis on ';incase';) she is a nice person.





i think skinny blondes are way overrated but i guess it comes down to perception. but i reckon just be more flirty and maybe dont wait as much to be approached if you get the right signs.





dont really know if i helped there
Yes. Attractiveness is a good proxy for evolutionary fitness and fertility, so men are programmed to seek it out. If you're really interested, you should read Geoff Miller's The Mating Mind (1999) or Nancy Etcoff's Survival of the Prettiest (2000).
Yes.





Where did you hear that they didn't, whoever told you that is full of it.





There are prolly some guy who will be attracted to you, but mostly its the hot chicks that most guys will all pay attention to.
Yes, of course...how can i be attracted to someone if i'm not attracted to them? i mean, face is above all the rest of the body anyway. so-





Face


Personality


Then body.
It really depends on the guy. I think most guys would rather have someone they find attractive.
Yes. They do. It's the truth.
me, not really, but then again, what type of guys are you looking for?

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