Do you think it is good dating advice for mothers to tell their daughters don't date all guys just want sex?

well actually it is something my grandmother says- and my mom as well- from like age 13 and up to me, their girl, that most guys are liars and cheaters and all they want is to get in a girl's pants and they will tell her anything to get in her pants, and it is better to not date and wait around on guys and to focus on your school work! because these young boys will give you an std or get you pregnant, and they don't care. they won't take care of the child.Do you think it is good dating advice for mothers to tell their daughters don't date all guys just want sex?
no because then how are guys suppose to have sex with your daughter? Your killing us. Or she will become that chick that just gives out bjs to guys but doesn't date themDo you think it is good dating advice for mothers to tell their daughters don't date all guys just want sex?
I don't think that's the way to talk to you about sex, but you have to consider why they talk to you about sex and dating that way. They know how serious the decisions are you have to make, and they want you to be as safe as possible. To think about it another way, people tell kids horror stories about drugs that mostly aren't true. They make you think that the first time you do cocaine you'll become an addict and your life will fall apart. This probably won't happen, but it's the only way parents know how to emphasize the seriousness of drugs.
Not all guys just want sex. you just have to find the guys that aren't all about sex.. a guy that actually cares about you. when you start dating a guy take it slow, and if he pushes it till him you want to wait for a while, and if he sticks around he cares about more then just sex, if he breaks up with you, or keeps pushing it then all he cares about is sex. you just gotta weed out the good ones from the bad ones. good luck, it takes a long time to find the right guy, but when you do it's worth it.
Yeah that is really bad advice. I understand your gramar and mother is coming from. They don't want to see anyone getting hurt, maybe because something happened from a previous relationship.





Giving out incorrect advice is dishonest and is actually lying. I know your trying to protect your loved ones but saying that isnt going to make anything better it's a relaity of life. It people didnt make mistakes, then people wouldnt learn, and then people wouldnt become better people because there wouldnt be anyhting to improve on.





Sure Std and getting pregaunt is a risk, but it's a protecting yourself?. Maybe giving advice on how to proctect would be better than saying '; ALL BOYS ARE LIEARS AND CHEATERS.';





Good luck!
no, it sounds more of a grandma and mom worried sick aabout their';lil girl';out in the dating world. Afraid she will not make right choices for her body and health, afraid she will be pressured into having sex and ending up pregant. Perhaps being over protective to the point of lying to the girl and hopefully scaring the girl from even noticing boys until she is much older.





But, saying that..boys of 13 and upward are changing ..raging hormones and all. But that is a life cycle.it does not make them horrible creeps.





Take their adive with a grain of salt..know they are trying to protect you..and just keep showing them what a responsible person you are.
um...i wouldnt say dont date AT ALL cuz u should enjoy ur childhood/teen years but i'm not saying have sexual relations at all ok? cuz u should really really wait till ur ready but that is sooooooo not tru thats not all guys want. thats horrible that they would say something like that and its really stereotypical of them to say that D:%26lt; thats just kinda effed up if u ask me





BUT they're probly just sayin that so they can have the luxury of being 100% sure that u wont have sex -_-





Dont have sex till ur older, but that doesnt mean u cant date.
Portions of what is described above is good advice.


When you're young it is best to focus on an education rather then boys.


The chances of an education going somewhere is much higher then a intimate relationship between two children.
Sounds like your mom and grandma are a wee bit paranoid. maybe they are speaking from their experience. Just tell them you have better judgment than them.





That is a terrible thing to say, What about your grandpa?? Or your father??





There are tons of great guys out there. Yes there are some creeps too. but to Label every guy like that? That's just wrong.
No, I don't think it's good advice. It's just another stereotype. It's the same as saying to a boy ';Don't date girls, they're all gold-diggers and all they want is your money.';





Spreading generalization and sexism isn't going to help anyone.
i think that's bad advice. It is telling a girl that to date you have to have sex which isn't true. You can casually date and see if you really like someone. I think the best thing to teach is that sex is sacred adn to be careful.
i think a sweeping generalization like that is ridiculous. im 17 and i have been with the same girl for going on 3 years and we still havent had sex once, and im still a virgin. so there is some hope for her =] give her a chance
not all guys are liars and jerks but there certainly are a lot of them and you should keep your eyes open. make sure your with a guy who is with you because he likes you, not because he wants to get in your pants
I'm a guy, and im not exactly looking for sex, i just want somebody who loves me or something.





sex is great, but its what a relationship is about.
find a guy that is your friend, and cares about you that won't hurt you and that you care about.





If you must do something what ever you do, use protection. The last thing you need to do is end up pregnant.
No, this is the truth.





Good for you, you should tell her the truth!





I am a guy and this is for real; we only want sex. TELL HER!
No, I think that's awful dating advice, as it is horribly unrealistic.
if anyone says its not true they are lieing! guys think about sex 24/7 but its not like EVERY guy wants to screw u. Once in a while u will actually find the nice guy. Just be careful u can easily spot the dogs..
MOST guys just want sex. Really, most.
I think it is very good advice. Because it is very true.
Most guys are liars and cheaters.
tht is good advice


bad for guys but good for you
excellent advice
dont give this dating advice.


itll make them do it behind your back and you will never find out.
No. That doesn't sound like good advice to me.
obviously mom and grandma did not follow their own advise or you would not be here
No some guys are like that you just have to be smart on who u date and dont let them take care or you. if you ever ever need any help ill help you just email me or anything


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i think its their way of saying wait till ur 18
Yeah it seems to be that your grandma and mom are MEN HATERS as they say because they got burned alot. Well what my mom says is ';No bodys gonna want the cow if they get the milk for free';. Guys think about sex every 5 seconds. But hey we woman areint all that great either. What I suggest is when you date a guy, never give up sex right away make them wait awhile so that they know, your not the kind of girl that just gives it up for anybody and that they cant just use you. Some woman think if they have sex with a man theyll stick around. Well whats the fun in that. Its better to get to know someone then when your both ready to have sex you know that you like one another and that you made the right decision.