What should I say to my boyfriend? I need advice guys!?

I need some quick advice here. I have had a reoccuring issue with my boyfriend - nearly every weekend, any arranged date we have planned becomes a free for all for his friends. If we are planning to go to a brewery and share some drinks, he will invite along a few friends for the evening. If we have a dinner date, he will call and tell me about a house party, asking if we could do dinner another night since the party will enable him to hang out with everyone at the same time.





Don't get me wrong, I'm not a boring girl. I'm outgoing and social, and enjoy going out in large groups, and doing things outside of the more simple 'dinner and a movie' type of thing. However, after a few failed attempts to go out together this week, he and I had plans to get together tonight after he came back from the city with his friends. He just called to tell me that these same friends are going out to a casino/bar type thing and he thinks it would be fun.What should I say to my boyfriend? I need advice guys!?
talk to him in private tell him you want to spend time with him and get to know him and tell him thats a little hard when he invites his friends over and partys and you liked to be respected as a person tell him how he hurt your feelings when he invited some of his friends over in front of you and said o you can come to like putting you aside for his friends tell him if the only way he can be arround you is when his friends are there then you don't think you could be with him ! Hope this helps! God Bless,HeatherWhat should I say to my boyfriend? I need advice guys!?
How old are you? (no hate)


How old is he? (no hate)


How long have you been dating?


Are there any insecurities? (no hate)


Have you asked him for alone time?





- Okay, you need to explain to him that you are used to spending more time with your boyfriends, and you are jealous for his time, but he needs to spend more time with you because it makes you happy. Then tell him that, that is what you NEED (stress that word) out of the relationship to be happy. Don't listen to any BS about needing a man and all that. Because you need more alone time with him or you wouldn't be so worried about it.





EDIT: Don't listen to that girl below me... Don't ever tell a guy you want to get to KNOW him. That scares a lot of us, and it sounds like he might be scared already. If he doesn't start spending more time with you than you leave. You want a strong relationship. I'm not sure he does.





- Oh yeah, if he asks why you want more time with him, time to put on all the fluff. Boost his ego, but, not to the point that you're gettin it on.
Stick to your guns it sounds like he thinks you are a pushover and will prolly keep doing it until you say something. So show him you mean business
not a talker your guy. not intimate. plan one on one dates with him that involve some physical activity or something that he doesnt have to talk on a real intimate level. sorry, that's your guy!
he prolly just wants to hang out with his friends... give him some space!!