Guys>advice please<why do boys do this?

i can tell that he does care about me but why does he act differently towards me when he is around his friends, and why would he tell me he cares and then talk to me like I dont mean anythng to him??ConfusedGuys%26gt;advice please%26lt;why do boys do this?
i'm not a guy but i've had a bf for almost two years and at first he acted the same way...





all guys do it and girls dont understand why.


he doesn't mean to hurt your feelings but he's probably just showing off. ';staying cool'; in front of his friends.


gf or not, he's prob been friends with those guys longer than you two have been together so he's trying to keep them happy with him while dating you. some guys feel slighted when their friend gets a girl and they dont because the guy tends to spend more time with his gf (and rightly so)


so in making you the brunt of his jokes, he's only trying to keep his friend(s) happy and make everyone laugh but he doesnt realize that it hurts you.





just bring it up casually later (away from his friends) and not in an accusing way or he'll get defensive. just explain that when he says mean stuff to you or about you it hurts and you dont mind if he jokes with his friends but ask him to please try not to put you down in front of them because it sends you mixed feelings and hurts more than he realizes.








Good luck!! =)Guys%26gt;advice please%26lt;why do boys do this?
This is the classic popularity scenario. He is making adjustments in personality for you. He is afraid that his friends will disagree with him, turn against him. To solve this, you can always adjust but ask yourself is it worth it? Another way to go about this situation is to talk to him the way you feel and make compromises. Remember, relationships are built on compromises.
Guys are usually considered to be weak, a wuss, or even gay if they show affection and emotion at ya'll's age. If you try to understand that, you will be less likely to be offended and hurt the next time he's distant from you when he's around his friends. Sometimes, talking to him about the issue in private can help you both better understand what's going on. If he's aware that he's doing it, he may be less likely to continue doing it.
Guys always act differently towards a girl when they're around their friends. It's because they don't want their friends to think they're a softy or a pussy or anything. If he can't act himself towards you when he's around his friends, then you should tell him to go away. He's not grown up enough %26amp; you don't want a kid.
Obviously, he's trying to be all cool and stuff, he might really like you he might not, but whichever one, he probably is embarrassed to be with you, I know that's probably hard to take in, but that's why guys do that most of the time.
typical guys - when they are still young and immature, they try and act all macho infront of their friends! ye and youre right, its enough to make one confused!!





but they do eventually grow out of it, when friends are not that important to them anymore.
Guys want to upkeep the ';bros before ho's';. They feel since most of the time their friends were there first, they shouldn't act ';lovey dovey'; to you in from of them. It's nothing personal, but he eventually needs to get over that.
Gimme some more details. I really dont know the difference because it isnt specified. How can you tell he cares? how does he change when he's with his friends? Does he smile when he see's you? does he when he's with his friends? fill me in here.
he probly trying to look cool infront of his friends..http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cbh-DF4ZdjM
You just explained the DEFINITION of a guy. It's just normal. If you don't like him tell him. If he doesn't stop leave him. There are MILLIONS upon MILLIONS of other guys who would treat you right!!!
Just know he cant be worth it n he must be a little boy cause a real man don't care who's around