I need a guys advice please?

i like my friend, but shes taken. we're in the same class and sit with eachother. her old crush is also in our class. should i





1) sit with her, be her friend, and possibly pick up the pieces if she breaks up?


2) let her sit with her old crush cuz she probably likes him better?





i asked her and she said shed rather sit with me, but she could be acting nice, or wanting to make him jealous. what do i do?I need a guys advice please?
Right now as her friend she is probably less nervous to sit with you and may be too shy (even if she is an outgoing person!) to sit with him all the time. You may end up ';picking up the pieces';, but in any event - be her friend. Healthy relationships start with friendship. If you can't be someone's friend you can't be a good ';boyfriend';, 'cause love is a decision not a feeling and you have to be able to like someone ';warts and all'; to put up with them in the rough times when they are grouchy or have the flu, etc...I need a guys advice please?
Don't over think the situation because that comes off as clingy and will be an instant turn off. If you walk into class, sit down, and don't look incredibly involved she'll sit where she'll like without feeling pressured.. This way you'll see her genuine interests. Hope I've helped, and try to pay attention in class. :]
I would say neither, I mean you should do close to number 1 over 2. BUT If its how you feel, don't try to pick up the pieces. I'm a dude, but thats kind of taking advantage of her. Thats a pretty bad thing to do. If it starts going bad, just listen to her, wait till she's back on her feet, and MAKE SURE that the other guy has no more feelings for her. That will be bad. This resaults in fights.
Sounds like your in high school in which case I would say go for it because sorry to say high school relationships don't last long and sitting back only turns into regret, something no one should have to much of. Btw don't just sit there, flirt a little bit, but dont get yourself beat up haha.
UHMM,,





i think she's making his crush jealous...


but oh well, she can sit wherever she wants! but u could sit with her,hehe!


talk to her, be her friend, know her interests!


and if the right time comes, u gotta do what u gotta do! haha! the move! she'll maybe appreciate u than his crush! haha! just show ur sincere and pay attention to her!


and of course...


to the lessons! lolz!








have a nice day! XD
i was in this situation about 3 weeks ago, just talk to her and hangout whenever you can, be nice, and talk to her whenever you can but make sure you dont annoy her. do these correctly and you will get brownie points. its what i did =D and im not single no more =]





good luck sir
like russell peters says ';be a man do the right thing,'; and the right thing in this situation will be is what do you want. If you want her just go for her forget that she has a crush that will only make you think less about yourself.
listen bro sit with her, hangout with her, and be really really funny( but not mean or offensive) and do fun things, always be happy. she'll realize your more fun than her boyfriend she might break up with him and get with you but be careful with her boyfriend because he will probably be pissed.. so make sure your stronger
Be her friend either way, don't seem to anxious to sit wit her, if there's a seat near her take it, if not don't sweat it you got other days to sit wit her. Be patient and things may fall in your favor
If you see that her morals are kind of on the weak side (i.e. she's slutty) stay away from her, find a better girl. But who knows, if you like here then take the chance but be wary of what may lie a head.
I'd say sit with her because you asked %26amp; she answered you. What you do then is watch %26amp; wait for an opertunity to open up. If one doesn't for a while start looking around.
lol funny how your just waiting on her to break up. well keep on sitting with her so that way she'll have your shoulder to cry on when she done 'break up'. and hopefully that way u'll have a chance with her :).
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ask her if shes sitting with you cuz she likes you